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Just a wild-ass guess, Jon, but did your wife complain you were a poor listener by any chance?

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Sorry to hijack Puppy, but I'm torn between replying to an email in bo-peep or ghandi fashion..can you look at my thread pls (Setting Boundaries When Not Clear A is Over)? I'm basing almost word for word on email you drafted for another DBer. Cheers!!


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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Yes Puppy she did complain about me not listening and everytime she would get upset I would tell her there is nothing to be upset about to stop worrying etc instead of comforting her I would critisize her.


T-7 years, M-06/08/05
EA-Oct08 thru Jan09 PA-Jan 1st
ILYBNILWY speech Jan 2nd
Jan 4th-WS agreed to work on marriage
Discovered A-Jan 14th exposed same day
WS said IL w/OM and wants D Jan 20th
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Well guys, today is when she is going to file for D, wish me luck. She went over everything that she is proposing, i am still going to be living in this house until D is final which will be around 90 days. Is there anything I can do within those 90 days to get her back?


T-7 years, M-06/08/05
EA-Oct08 thru Jan09 PA-Jan 1st
ILYBNILWY speech Jan 2nd
Jan 4th-WS agreed to work on marriage
Discovered A-Jan 14th exposed same day
WS said IL w/OM and wants D Jan 20th
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