Warm temperatures. Ocean and Gulf... Woohoo. PMA keeps rolling.
Jealous . Have a great trip, you deserve it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Opinion added. Thanks for your insight - I've quoted you twice today on other people's threads. Your thoughts about passive/aggressive controlling behavior when LBS is doing something only for them has helped me understand something that has been bothering me about MY H.... He does the same thing!!
Wonderful stuff CB!!!
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ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
A few awkward moments. No butterflies. It looked like she was faking having a good time. I had a great time. Friends came over and checked in on me through out the night. I carried my phone with me for the first 20 minutes just incase I had to make a phone call for support. But I did not have to at all. Looking at her I thought she was real skinny now. And I thought that woman was my wife. But not any more. I did not feel sad or happy with those thoughts. Just a peace with them. I was civil and nice with her during our brief conversations through out the night. MIL and FIL where there tending bar so I got some hugs in. Nephew was at the door so we hung out. And friends where everywhere so I enjoyed conversation , dancing won a ton of prizes to boot. Luck of the Irish. And Irish eyes were smiling. Only real awkward times where when she stood beside me for 5 minutes and when she had to tie a balloon on my leg for a game. ( I felt very awkward and a bit nauseated at the same time )
I silently closed the door some time ago.
Thats all my updates.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
CB, I'm glad the j & j went well. You sound detached and dignified...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Haha! I imagined you saying this with an extra thick accent!
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Only real awkward times where when she stood beside me for 5 minutes and when she had to tie a balloon on my leg for a game.
Yeah...I would think that would be excruciatingly akward! Did you just let your mind go to a different place?
You know something? Going to a wedding and having to see your ex spouse is almost up there with toughest post marriage experiences...the only worse I think would be seeing them be with another date. My point is that you survived and thrived during it! HUGE accomplishment!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
. Have a great trip, you deserve it.