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You know, I am starting too see that many people who have been here previously have actually started new relationships. I noticed this in the alt.

And I am beginning to think maybe I have waited around too long for this idiot...and wondering what is wrong with me that I would do that?

Screw him, I am tired of this...I want to meet someone who will treat me a hell of a lot better than he did!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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You will, Lola. You can't rush it, but you can be open to it!

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Thanks Jeff!!!

I don't want to rush it, because I don't think it works that way, but I have to say I am damned tired of this.

Who wants to take bets on whether or not he will actually finalize today?

Most of me hopes he will, so I can grieve, accept, and get on with my life.

A small part hopes he will come to his senses. But it is small.

The realistic part of me figures he does not understand what it is like to live in limbo, so he really doesn't give a sheeeyit...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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I'm tending to agree with the realist. frown

Make this weekend a great one for you babe!!


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I am going to clean my house. And sleep. And read. And enjoy peace and quiet...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Ooooohhhh....peace and quiet......NICE!


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Okay so I am not getting divorced today. Apparently the SG did not receive the paperwork in the mail, and the court only does walk in uncontested divorces twice a month, according to him. So he will have to wait until next month to finalize.

Keep in mind I have worked in this field in Texas. So I know that this particular court hears uncontested divorces every friday. Still I did call to see if maybe the policies had changed.

Nope. Every Friday.

F*cking Limbo.


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LOL,
I am sorry for the delay...argggg! Frustrating!

I too know what you mean...feel like a lot of wasted time...for me it was 2.5 years, the last 2.5 years. There was one point where I was so angry I said to myself that the entire 13 years was a waste...but that was the anger talking.

I want the same........someone who will treat me well!


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Jerk. I cannot figure out why he would lie to me about it.

I need to kick him in the nuts. Okay maybe that is harsh, but I hate this. If you want me, fine, tell me and we will deal with it. IF not, get off your asssss and go finish this!!!


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I'm sorry Lola, is there no way of you getting the papers to the court instead o relying on him? That's probably a stupid question. I'm sure if there was you'd have done it.


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