Well done...by getting up and leaving when she didn't want to back down about the house!
And you did sound in control- you got the last word!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Well done...by getting up and leaving when she didn't want to back down about the house!
And you did sound in control- you got the last word!
Thanks newmama. What would I do without your positive outlook!
Spoke to solicitor. He will send a proposal for �5k to her solicitor as she has 'changed her mind so many times in the past she may change it again'.
He is also sending me forms to file for the big D. Hopefully get them next week. He doesn't think that would be settled by July though so I need a new plan B.
Me, I'm off for a very long weekend with my new lady. Leaving in about 5 minutes. It is Valentines Day on Sunday after all.
I will be back on here though over the rest of the week.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
oooo la la! Don't forget to compliment her and give nice massages! or foot rubs! ;-) Have a good time!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
P, you did great... you had SELF-control. I think your nervousness was only obvious to yourself. Your behavior was not of a nervous man. You did really well!!
I hope you have a wonderful weekend with your new lady friend.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
Hey P. I started to work on a poem. The words came out when I was thinking about where you have been and what your becoming. It was my thoughts for yesterdays run. Sorry if it sounds bleak. But it is to portray hope. Well I can see it. I have no beginning or ending. Or I may just leave it as is. I have not decided. I would like your opinion. When I am done I will work it in my journal. Right now its just floating in my mind. And the words are written to the pace of my run. This is the first time it is written out.
I think you will understand why i picked what I picked.
She chose the mountain while I took to the sea Kissing away to our graves below the cold waves. She chose the mountain while I took to the sea A fleeting glimpse of what was and what is to be. She chose the mountain while I took to the sea Shimmering hopes bashed apart left in the dark. She chose the mountain while I took to the sea Cast adrift floating away currents embrace She chose the mountain while I took to the sea Spiralling down I stand upon the land. She chose the mountain while I took to the sea I walk away
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
I think you will understand why i picked what I picked.
No fair keeping secrets on a public forum!!! From your IEAJ buddies!
P, check in with us! I want to know how you are!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Paging P17...please check in with the DBers...P17 please check in...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
P has gotten back on the horse ... the 'time to get all those things that you ignored for the last 6 months' horse and it's killing all my time.
I haven't forgotten about you guys - I do check the forum and I will be back. Spending time with my ladyfriend this weekend (she comes here) and generally getting on with life. Surprisingly I've had a few relapses (for want of a better word) over the last few days that has left me somewhat perplexed. I thought I was past all that ...
Anyway, I will get back to you guys when I have time to sit down and write properly what's been happening.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
Thank you for checking in! Your lady friend needs a nick name... P's Lady? Lady P? lol
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Thanks newmama. What would I do without your positive outlook!