Things are still getting better every day.She isn't as shy and we talk alot more about everything.We are going to finish cleaning apt. out this weekend and hopefully get all that done.We were joking around last night and she said she wasn't really living here she was just using me and I told her not to even joke about that because if she was she needed to get the moving boxes back out and repack.Then the conservation went on to showing affection and she asked "don't I show you I love you"I said yes but I would like to hear it sometimes.She is falling again,I can tell by her moods.Have a good weekend everyone.
Cute Randy - people are going to get a bad impression of me!
Remember Randy, not everyone's love language is the same. Things she may be doing she may look at it as expressing love to you. But I agree verbal is important - she just isn't ready for that yet.
Well it's official,we finished moving xw stuff back to the house and have been sorting things out.We even have been touching and joking around about everything.I did tell her last night that if something bothered her to talk about it and we would really work on our communication,she thought that was a good idea.It's funny because we haven't discussed $ or how any of thats going to work. She pays for alot already I just want to make sure that everything isn't coming from me.Maybe I am gun shy but she has as much to prove as I do. Thanks to everyone that has listened to me rant and rave over the last 3 years,I know that we would'nt be together if it wern't for this board.
You are doing well. And she definitely has much to prove. But the pace seems good and your attitude seems proper. You are putting things out to say that you do want a successful R. Keep it up. And in my opinion, it is much better that she is not rushing in. Stay the course. And by all means, remember...BE PATIENT.
Randy great news, you are the epitomy of patience and unconditional love. In these trying times between me and my Ex, I look to you for inspiration and hope. Thank you for being there for me. I continue to pray for you and your sitch, and hope that mine can turn out as positive as yours has. I predict that before long, you will be posting under success stories.
