Not much of one,It really is like we were married but we aren't sleeping together,but then thats seems like the way it is when you are married.Missy have a good day and remember keep the blinds shut!
Hey elwood, Everything is cruising along,not getting to see her much this week.Because she is at class till late for work.I told her last night that if she wanted to talk I would and that I would really like to get closer,she just said she didn't know when she would be ready for that but that she is living at the house and thats a start.So I guess thats what I will live with for now.It sounds like you are in a position to at least open her mind up and it will also show her that you are there.I know she said not to take 2 days off but you might think about going to work for a little while and then spending the rest of day there for her.If she is out of hospital maybe bring her lunch or if she is still in keeping her company.Good luck
I think the hardest part right now is when she walks out to go to work and gives the d kisses and walks by me. I can't understand what she feels and it takes everything I have to hang on.I hate to get this far and drop it ,I just want to have a complete R.
I know and for the most part I am being cool.She wants me to rub her back and things like that but I can't get a hug or anything on the romantic side and it's driving me crazy
Cool and crazy....hmmm, perhaps a bit oxymronic, but hey, I dig your scene. Do you remember early on when I said hope for the best but expect nothing. Dampen those expectations and when it happens, it will be more of a joy rather than a relief that it finally happened.
I am trying,I guess I am having those thoughts about why did I and am I trying so hard,I know I could find someone else that would treat me the way I want to be treated and that would let me love them.I think it's love or is it because with the kids and everything it's easier and the heck with my feelings.I have waited 3 years and I am all happy because she is at the house like a roomate.I am but I am also asking myself why.I wasn't the one that fell for someone else or left.Oh well I need some time in the woods and thats where I am going.Have a great weekend everyone.
I would have to say I have done it,last night I had a headach and XW asked why and I just said probably from stress and she said what stress and I just flat told her that I was busting my ass around here and she didn't even notice. She said yes she did.Well this morning she asked if I could go to her apt. and start packing up stuff and bringing home. So thats where i am headed,hopefully that means other things to.Life is good
Randy: See we think they don't give a rats a** and they do - they do notice our changes just as we notice theirs. I hope for your sake it will mean more than just "roomates" but probably not initially. I say give her a bit more time to get settled into really being home. I forget are you two sleeping together or separate rooms yet?
