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Newmama - Just FINALLY got through the diff types of seducers and victims... HOLY COW! It would take me years to get through this stuff!

I'm a Charmer (who knew?)
He's most closely a Professor type.

Should be easy? Right? Make him feel like a freakin' RAKE!


I need guidance on what to do now that I've identified... start working through the chapters after it? I want the Cliff Notes!


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H got home last night, and wants ALL of us to try and do a 3-mile run this afternoon when S12 gets home. He likes what I'm doing, I guess, and wants to join in... I'll get left in the dust, but will humor them!
This is excellent. You don't care if you are left 6 feet under. Keep him excercising. Very good for serotonin levels. Can you do that every day or 4 times a week?


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OP - He travels four days a week, but the ones he's here I can!!! The boys help, as they're very active!




Just did the last day of week one of the Couch to 5k this am, JUST IN CASE our afternoon run falls apart! It is about 28 degrees, no wind and lightly snowing. We live in a historic neighborhood, tucked away, on the river. It really couldn't have been more beautiful!!!

Next, off to sons bball game!


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Mindfull, the charmer is still in you--you have been practicing on us! Yeah there is a condensed version out there I guess but I didnt see that until this week! You aren't reading the entire section on examples from history in each chapter, right?


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Mindfull - You've inspired me!! I signed up for a 12K 3 months from now... time to start "real" training instead of running for a hobby smile


Keep up the great work!!

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Newmama:

I skimmed each type, found ours, and then, really read them... That's all the farther I got. I looked at the way the book was set-up, though. Will stay away from the examples!


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Talia - Yikes! You don't mess around, do you??? Let me know how it goes... there's an itunes podcast intervals that does the couch to whateverk.... Try that on for size!


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What's this about a podcast? I need some motivation for tomorrow's run!

I should probably start by getting some sleep...

good for all of us for getting out and getting in shape! Get those seratonin or endorphins or whatever cranking!

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Aver...

Hope I got you early enough...

http://www.djsteveboy.com/1day25k.html

I'm leaving now for my 3-mile walk w/my dog, listening to our church service podcast. It's a rest day!


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After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
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Today I GAL by: 3-mile walk w/the dog while listening to church service (is that a double GAL?)

Today I GAL by: Three hours of peace and quiet to read AofS

Today I GAL by: Cooking a nice dinner for my family!

Today I WILL 180 by: Staying awake to finish American Idol w/the family tonight!!! (I always fall asleep during it... they start too late!)


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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