and faxed a letter to her counselor, that I'm just going to sit back and watch how she handles kids and stuff, there has been some stuff going on, bad stuff and as a parent i want to protect them.
That's going to go over like a fart in church.
Stop being petty. This is not tit for tat...if it is I can direct you to several very help passive aggresive self help groups.
Did you start reading the resources? How does MC seem to fit or not fit?
Have you looked deep into the mirror and figured out your faults and failings in the marriage yet?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Yes I did, every flipping one, filled half a note book. I've never had a problem with self realization. I like you, I have ADD and I'm pretty direct too. That was one of my faults.
Yes I did, every flipping one, filled half a note book. I've never had a problem with self realization. I like you, I have ADD and I'm pretty direct too. That was one of my faults.
Just make sure they are YOUR views....
No quick fixes here, your changes and realizations have to be for YOU, and you alone....
Make sure your mirror doesn't have her reflection in it....
She hasn't called,texted, or emailed me since Sunday afternoon and I didn't her.She just emailed me if I need help dropping off S to practice. I don't..should I offer if she feels like taking him this wk,feel free or just a simple..NO. you have to understand she has told me "she'll call when i can come home",she has always known what i wanted.
Also in the future on switching up with the kids and stuff, does it need to be a wk,the OM is a neighbor, I have a place and I just wanted her away so the kids wouldn't keep coming to her.She knows I can be the jealous type,too.Should I offer,stay there when I have the kids vs going somewhere else? Or just follow her lead?what about laundry?do hers that she left or not?she left a shirt i left behind on the dryer? "Need help with any of these days or times?" with her email signature.