Divorcebusting.com Forums Open Forums For Newcomers My Story...possible "grass is greener" scenario?

nsw, your last text is a good "last impression" that should now be followed with nothing more from you...(no more whiny neener neener tit for tat) but "pick D up at 5. Thanks." etc

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.

As for hobbies, my friend's H has similar interests as you but also likes paintball where he goes with or without buddies...he has met new friends doing it.

paintball...interesting idea. I do (or did) enjoy the shoot-em-up games when I play on the computer...and that would be similar only I wouldnt be stuck in this house. thanks for the idea.

and you can take your aggression out and build a "manly man Arnold Scwarzenneger" confidence but with a calm, non confrontational attitude toward your ex! ;-)

So how does one exude confidence and self-assuredness without it coming off as pursuing?

Ny NOT persuing! By using body language like shoulders back, head up, eye contact, walking with purpose, smiling as if you have inner joy and a secret (not a wide toothy grin!) Letting nasty comments roll off your back with a shrug.

Looking your best, having a positive mental attitude, and being relaxed.

fake it til you make it...

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Thanks!