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Re: Changing Man givingitmyall #1933826 02/08/10 09:12 PM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 5,299 C Coach Member
Coach Member C Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 5,299	Originally Posted By: givingitmyall Quote: So, I'm curious: whaddaya think? I agree with MO3. The answer is whatever the right choice for YOU is. I vote for the carnation with the glasses. M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.

Re: Changing Man givingitmyall #1933830 02/08/10 09:15 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 3,468 N newmama Member
newmama Member N Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 3,468	oops- didn't see the q about the red carnation. It represents the beginning of your relationship with stbxw right? how do you picture yourself feeling if you wear it tomorrow? me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004

Re: Changing Man Gardener #1933853 02/08/10 09:35 PM
Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 2,466 F flowmom Member
flowmom Member F Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 2,466	Originally Posted By: Gardener Just can't help thinking about tomorrow morning's D, is all. Of course. I say wear the carnation if it feels like closing the circle to you. It seems like closure is pretty hard to come by so if that helps, do it. me: 42 \| STBXH: 41 \| T: 18 \| M: 10 \| separation: Jan 3, 2010 \| they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.

Re: Changing Man flowmom #1933864 02/08/10 09:42 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992 S smith18 Member
smith18 Member S Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992	I vote yes again (first in surviving thread).

Re: Changing Man smith18 #1933881 02/08/10 09:54 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida S Serenity13 Member
Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	(((Gardener))) The red carnation symbolized the beginning of the relationship... Choose a different flower/color to symbolize your new beginning now... She would probably see the red carnation as a last ditch attempt at you trying to prove once again how much she is losing/lost/can't live without etc... May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Changing Man Coach #1933988 02/09/10 12:32 AM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener OP Member
OP Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	Originally Posted By: Coach I vote for the carnation with the glasses. Another Belly-Laugh Of The Day Award to Coach! Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Changing Man Serenity13 #1933992 02/09/10 12:36 AM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener OP Member
OP Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	Originally Posted By: Serenity13 (((Gardener)))Choose a different flower/color to symbolize your new beginning now...:) Um, Black? Not for my new beginning, just for tomorrow. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Changing Man Gardener #1934017 02/09/10 12:50 AM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener OP Member
OP Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	Thank you all. On my way home from my new GAL gym, I realized there could be any number of incorrect conclusions and intentions she could - and would -draw from my wearing any flower and it would be completely out of my control. So, I decided to wear my dignity tomorrow. Thanks for taking the time and for the food for thought. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Changing Man Gardener #1934108 02/09/10 02:29 AM
Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 690 A avermont Member
avermont Member A Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 690	Dignity and your best underwear. Oops--nicest undies applies to women making themselves feel better--does the same apply to men? My heart will be with you tomorrow. dignity and grace, full speed ahead. Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process

Re: Changing Man avermont #1934174 02/09/10 03:49 AM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,256 R rockedworld Member
rockedworld Member R Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,256	Will be thinking of you and saying a prayer for you ((Gardener))

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