Today I GALed by joining L.A. Fitness Gym. I have a lot of fitness gear downstairs, but I gotta start getting out of this house! And since I quit smoking, the savings more than make up for the cost so I'm ahead despite dismal financial Sitch.
Today I GALed by inviting my brother out to lunch tomorrow. It's been a long time.
Today I GALed by joining up for the next Hiking Meetup Hike (tomorrow).
Today I GALed by deciding to hit Manhattan next week - alone if I have to - and enjoying some good live music!
Time to start getting off my arse!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Today I GAL by : Taking a drive (60 miles or so) to have lunch (2 counties and 3 towns away) at a small diner (mom & pops) with a friend. She loves a good dive. May shop some!
Today I GAL by : Having dinner this evening with friends at their new home (5ish this evening).
Today I GAL by : Atending a Christian Comedy show at a Catholic Church in Louisville. Not Catholic but all for having a good time.
Today I GAL by : Geeting out of the house as W is supposed to stop by and get some of her stuff out of the house.
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"
I GAL yesterday, went to the local mall and purchased new jeans, shirt and tie.. NO way I would have spent that kind of money before!!.. Yeeee haaaaa!!!...... Boy that felt good.. Wait till W see's me with the new stuff on!!!...
I love this site... thanks for the support everyone..
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
Today I GAL by : going out for lunch with MOM and then hockey game. Today I GAL by : watching football game at friends house ( potluck put on a roast) Today I 180 by : continue with no girls weekend ( no stxw, no dates , girls got cooties) Today I 180 by : still resting legs. Back to running next week.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
Today, I GALed by going to the new gym I joined for first time. Today I 180d big time by smiling and chatting something to every person I interacted with. Today I 180'd by striking up small talk chats with two women & one guy at gym. Today I GALed by fulfilling yesterday's GAL and having that lunch with my brother. Today, I 180d by thanking him for 14 months of support - and endless listening - and telling him he's always been a good brother to me.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Today I GAL by: Change up workout schedule to get up earlier and run in AM - leaving me more time in evenings to do other things. Today I GAL by: Going to my 2nd belly dancing class. Today I 180: Calling out H on switching joint financial plans without talking to me.
This weekend I 180 by: Signing up for a dating site This weekend I 180 by: Taking the weekend off to lay around and do nothing instead of work extra and go out.
ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
Yesterday I GAL'd by: cooking for my family for the Super Bowl! Yesterday I 180'd by: actually baking something that didn't burn! Seriously! Has never happened!
Today I GAL'd by: Walking three miles w/my BFF. Love her!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.