Good thoughts Lola, it is encouraging to think back.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I have tried dating a guy for the past week and a half. Nothing serious. And I just told him I couldnt do it.
I mean, seriously, I still feel like even going out is cheating!!!
WTF?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
The piece of paper (I had difficulty with dating while still M, even if only technically, it definitely made me uncomfortable)? Or is it emotional? Or both?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
So there is still an emotional attachment at some level of your sub conscious. Don't feel bad about it, just find a way past it. At least you have been given the opportunity to date, that is fantastic! Just do it at your own pace. As long as you don't shut yourself off totally to the possibility in the future then you're fine. There is no shame in still having an emotional connection. Having that piece of paper is not a magical fix.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I suppose. I am not shutting down from dating, but I think this guy was kind of pushing for more than I was ready to give. I got red STOP signs in my head.
I figure it this way, I am not shutting off the possibility that I may meet someone I really like. But I want to go really slow. This is the first time I have felt pretty good being on my own.
This one was kind of a set up from a friend, and I hate that. I felt really backed into a corner with it, and actually had to ask a therapist friend for advice. I didn't even really want to go out with the guy.
But then again, according to Venus and Mars Moving On book, I am supposed to date people I wouldn't normally date so I can get used to rejecting and being rejected.
And I ask you, what kind of happy horse sh!t is that? Who the fudge wants to be rejected??? Or reject???
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Although keeping the door open to people you wouldn't normally date can lead to meeting someone very nice, that whole bit about rejection is just masochistic!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
