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#1927075 01/30/10 07:14 PM
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So yesterday caught my H at our house messing around with another woman. WOW! Had to leave work because daycare couldn't get a hold of him. Drove by saw her there walked in and broke it up. Told him I will be going to the lawyer now we are getting divorced you have disrespected me enough ....amoung other things.....


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Oh Honey...I am so sorry. How are you feeling? Other than the obvious...(((Nik))).

Kick him in the nads...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

LolaL #1927078 01/30/10 07:19 PM
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yeah....pretty much told him to not call, not text....ya right think that happened. It hasn't stopped.
hate my life
this isn't what i wanted
do you still love me
i have so much guilt i want to sit down and tell you everything not that it will change anything
i'm never going to be happy
blah blah

I'm not sad, haven't shed a tear more just in disbelief like really you really did this again.....


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tell me what you want I'll do it anything....just pathetic


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that must have quite a shock for you. sorry you had to see that.

Lotus #1927083 01/30/10 07:25 PM
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Sweetie take your time to process this. Then ask yourself that if he were willing, could you forgive him? Is this your dealbreaker?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

LolaL #1927086 01/30/10 07:29 PM
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It wasn't a shock I knew exactly what I was going to see walking into the house, sadly, to admit that.

Dealbreaker....well i've given him 2.5 years to straight his life out...he continues to seek acceptance self esteem boots from other women. Dn't understand how he could possibly say this isn't what I want...


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I am so sorry. I know it wasn't a shock, but I also know it wasn't what you wanted.

What is your next step?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

LolaL #1927092 01/30/10 07:39 PM
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he's being ridiculous, been calling like crazy ive been blocking his calls, he JUST seconds ago drove by my parents says he wants to talk.


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Just don't know what he'd have to say right now...how many times are you going to do this to your wife and son? Sorta feel like too little too late....


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