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nikblondiew,
I'm so sorry. Same thing happened to me with my fist husband. It's devasting. Hang in there, and keep posting for support.

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mb28 #1927836 02/01/10 11:36 AM
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Sorry Nik my computer froze up over the weekend.

How are you doing?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

LolaL #1929501 02/03/10 02:38 PM
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Awww.......what a weekend. That happened Friday....Saturday/Sunday my son was sick. Mon/Tue spent the day in the hospital with him for dehydration.

I'm beyond furious with him.


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I can imagine.

Have you spoken to him at all?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Little bit via text. Ive been telling him i will be moving all of our stuff out of the house, he has no idea what it means to love, his priorities are extremely messed up, etc.

Just checked our bill, yeah there still texting. UNREAL! Tells me everything I need to know. This chick has 5 felons, going to prison in a few months for 4.5 years, terroristic threats, we have a child here idiot!!!! WOW!


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I can't even concentrate! I'm going after work to get the rest of our things.......


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Originally Posted By: nikblondiew

Just checked our bill, yeah there still texting. UNREAL! Tells me everything I need to know. This chick has 5 felons, going to prison in a few months for 4.5 years, terroristic threats, we have a child here idiot!!!! WOW!


If this is true, then you should file for sole custody now and insist your H only have supervised visits with your son until he can concretely prove this OW is completely out of the picture. There is no way a 5 time convicted felon with an upcoming prison term should be anywhere near your son IMO.

Sorry for what you have had to deal with - stay strong. The healthy thing for you here is separation from this storm right now.

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I plan to go for sole custody. I don't know much about how that works, as it's my first time, and don't know too many divorced. With sole custody does that mean every other weekend he'd have him?

I completely agree with you searching.......I told him and his mother that. What is he thinking? Priorities are messed.

I printed off the divorce paperwork and will go in search of a good lawyer locally.


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nik,
So sorry you are having to deal with this, my heart goes out to you and your son. He is completely out of control of himself from one minute to the next. S4H is right you need to remove yourself from the situation. Do you have a friend that can go with you?


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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

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Miss, thanks for responding. Need these words now more than ever. He is very out of control, clearly.

He took himself off of our cell phone account and got his own. Says he's sick of watching me like a hawk. I told him you're so sorry you've continued to talk to her. I'm ok with this.


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