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So, Tuesday and Wednesday are out. That leaves Monday, Thursday, and Friday.

I haven't seen most of those movies and want to, it's just a matter of in what order so I can request them from the library/netflix in time to watch them with the group.


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Originally Posted By: Tomato
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I get that a lot. I can assure you I am a woman...


I was a little dumbfounded (not too terribly uncommon) by your reminding and affirming your womanhood. Could be that there is something to the lyrics in the song (if it is even the same one that I was ..can't remember is it the Pretender's ..it alludes me now )

I am so much of a musically focussed rather than a lyrically focussed person that is probably why I failed to make the connection of what you were getting at with the 'I am a woman' thing.

Anywhoooo.

May you be blessed with the Holy Spirit.

Ted


Lol...yes the song holds a story of a young man's first sexual experience...only to find out Lola was a man.

My Lola comes from the Barry Manilow song Copa Cobana. Yes, I am a dweeb.

Blessings to you too Ted...


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I have movies on demand, so I am good with whatever day. But Fridays would be preferable ... that is when D14 is w/ XH.


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Sweet. So, what movie should I get first?


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I'll let someone else suggest the movie. Just no mushy romance ones for now...

I suspect I am going to be moving over to surviving soon. Just got off the phone with SG. Decree is a go after I add a little tax information, and it should be finished in as soon as a week. Although I expect we will see.

As much as I didnt want this, I am now left with facing the fact that its almost done. Part of me feels relief, and part of me feels sadness. {sigh...}

He really sounds happy this is almost done. Jerk.


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frown I understand those emotions...I'd imagine many feel that way...sadness and relief. To me it feels like this big black cloud hanging over my head it follows me everywhere and the uncertainty lerks throughout.... in one sense it'd be nice to not have that...just to know that's how it will end but heartbreak for an end of what once was.


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Even though I was in SO many ways relieved when everything finally finalized (and yes, I had to do the papers to finalize even though I bullied him into filing lol) I was also sad. It was like those last bits of emotions of loss, sadness, and a sense of failure came through. Such a strange mix to be feeling, but normal.

The action films we discussed were: Public Enemies, Inglorious Bastards, The Hurt Locker, and District 9.

Anyone want to veto one of those? Otherwise we can just start at the top and work our way down starting maybe Friday, February 12th? We can start a thread in Just for Fun with the title of the movie, start it at say 8 pm east coast, 5 pm west coast time (I have most Fridays off, so that actually works okay for me out here - otherwise we can bump it back an hour)?


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I know I need to look at this is the closure I need. But I still love him so much. I feel like a fool because he has given me no reason to love him. There is no reason. Yet I still do. I don't want to be divorced from him.

But I also realize that at this point, there is nothing more I can do. I have tried everything. I always wondered why people stayed separated for so long rather than just get divorced once they split. Now I know.

I am not sure what I expected to happen. I suppose deep down I always knew this would happen, but now it is time I really face it.


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I heard Inglorious Bastards was phenomenal...Feb 11 is good with me.


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I vote Inglorious Bastards also. I am dying to see that one.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!

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