And that's ok...because you are great company! Let the man sleep...maybe he'll be frisky in the morning.... If not, he'll love you more for letting him get a good night's rest and not complaining about him missing the movie.
How about a little PMA assignment...I'm doing it myself... Today I am focusing on what I have in my life to be grateful to God for....and I have lots of things to list! How about you?
Well, no this morning: we woke up later than expected and had to rush to work.
I finished work and have to pick up my D. Then I am going to the airport to pick up my brother and sister. I will have to figure how to tell them... H said he would try to get home early (3 or 4 pm) but did not offer to come to the airport with me, which gives me a chnce to talk to them first.
Wish me luck.
Positives for yesterday: 1. He stayed home after skating class and did not go back to work. 2. He lit up the fire and not the whole house 3. We snuggled
Well, I had to find three!
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
Here's wishing you lots of luck. But you don't need it! You are a caring, capable woman and you are going to let them know you are doing what is best for you and just need, no not need, want their love and support.
Well, guys. This is NOT GOOD. My brother and sister did not comment on my news, but if looks could kill... there'd be corpses here.
To add insult to injury I was expecting H to call me and took my B and S to dinner. But they had left my cell phone in the car. My H is seething and has decided not to come home.
I think I'll get drunk and wake up in a hundred years or so...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
Can you talk H into meeting you somewhere for a bit this evening? A do something different sort of thing? Leave your bro and sister to their own devices for a while...show h how important he and his feelings are to you?
Think of it this way...what would you want him to do for you if you were in his shoes?
Oh no, Opt, I hope the visit is improving. Remember, they will take their cues from you (in part). Self-fufiling prophecies, beware of how you present things and just think, this first visit will be the worst, it will get easier from here on out...
If not, he'll love you more for letting him get a good night's rest and not complaining about him missing the movie. 
H said he would try to get home early (3 or 4 pm) but did not offer to come to the airport with me, which gives me a chnce to talk to them first.