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I ammended to your last post.

Extra distance is a bonus. Right now, I am working more for consistency, accuracy and confidence.

I dont think that I need a new putter since I am very happy with the cheap one I have. It is an offset blade and I am fairly accurate with my straight putting stroke. I have tried out some mallet putters, but I cant tell that they improve anything for me. This mallet felt pretty good when I tried it: http://www.odysseygolf.com/Global/en-US/Products/Putters/WhiteHotXG/WhiteHotXG7Putter.html

Nice putter...and nice post over there..

funny...just too funny..

Hey guys, just read up on the other guy.....wow...seven years. have to agree with you on the apple not falling too far away from the tree. I sure hope we and some other people in our daughters' lives can help to perhaps kick that apple a little further.

Mike sorry to hear about the miscarriage. I am sure you are supporting your son and DIL through all this.

On the golf clubs.....I never owned a set of Pings but may take a long look very soon. The reason i suggested the adams set to Kerry is becasue he is a relative newcomer. however, since I am getting closer to the senior tour myself, I may be going that route as well soon.

Speaking of the Champions Tour, announcement this week that Montreal will get an event for the next 5 years. I saw the big boys at a Canadian open event (including tiger) and the recent President's cup. A golf tournament is much better on TV....however, it will be nice to see the older guys out there. the guys with some character who actually interact with the spectators. I am looking forward to it this July.

WHOA!!! Just read that post over in newcomers and DANG!! Mike, LOVE what you said buddy. That woman's behavior scares the bejeezees out of me, I can't imagine any man willingly going back into a R with that. WHOA.....dang. I just keep shaking my head in disbelief. Thanks for sharing!

<<I can't imagine any man willingly going back into a R with that>>

don't want to change the subject but nothing surprises me anymore....especiallly with the rumours with elin and tiger. Sure he has $$$, but after a dozen mistresses in 5 years????

OMG, are they actually saying that she might take him back? GAG!!!!!

nothing wrong with ADAMS AT ALL...I always suggest buying brand name clubs no matter what type....

Senior Tour..I used to go to Winston Salem every year and watch them...At Tanglewood..I think it was called the RJR Championship or something like that..

to post or not to post..that is the question..

I'm slightly pissed/irratated this morning and a bit unsettled...

I guess I discovered that Kim has once again sent out invitations to my family for Caleigh's birthday party next weekend..even after she was told that the parties would be separate. I sent her a gentle reminder via email this morning and asked her to stop once again and that i thought the invitations being sent not only kept things confused for Caleigh but also resulted in guilty feelings for my mother...who quite frankly..has been through enough the last 2-3 years....I also told her of my plans to remarry sometime this year....Kim's reply was that if my family wanted her to stop sending the invites then she would..and that she was getting married in September...my reply to her was "then stop" and congrats on the wedding...I told Michele about the email exchange and Michele got a little upset about Kim saying she was getting married...Michele's oldest daughter also got upset and they both said they don't believe it...my response was.."i could care less as long is caleigh is taken care of"..If Caleigh is not taken care of then I have issues..

women here may have a take on all the above...bottom line..I could care less if Kim gets remarried...good for her..I don't give any thought to any of that simply because I don't keep up with Kim's personal business..it's none of my business and I see no point in allowing her to have any "power" over me by allowing my mind or thoughts to go there...I guess i am also a bit puzzled over why Michele might allow herself to be affected by kim saying she was getting married this year..maybe she thinks Kim is "stealing our thunder" or something...

number 2---anybody have any experience with 12 year old girls..particularly 12 year olds who have started blaming Fiancee's(Me) for taking time away from her/and her mom...who have abandonement issues and think that me coming in and marrying her mom will result with me leaving after a period of time and abandoning them...who..is happy with the way things are one minute and absolutely throwing a fit the next??? Michele and I both think this is just the 12 year old going through a stage and being 12...

thoughts...questions...drinks..or humor..I'll take what i can get..thanks all

I have two grown daughters and a daughter who is currently 12 yers old as well. You can't win. That's all.

From a woman's perspective:

From Michele's perspective, it is almost like Kim is trying to "one up" you. In addition, Michele may feel that Kim is trying to make you jealous, so to speak, and interfere with your relationship. Reassure her that you could care less what Kim is doing, and that you only have eyes for her. Women tend to be a little insecure when it comes to the X.

As far as her 12 year old, it is a phase. Make sure you include her in activities, but you may both need to sit down with her and set the boundaries. Reassure her that you are not going anywhere, and although you are not her father, you would like to be her friend. See if you can get some input, but girls at this age can also be very manipulative. (I have three daughters, so I know my subject material VERY well.) There needs to be mutual respect, and firmness, but in a loving way. Make sense?

As for drinks, glass of champagne and a toast to you, and congratulations!!!!!