Hey, Miss H! I just saw this thread and had to respond. I am so sorry that you are still having to deal with so much cr@p from your ex! I, too, hope that one day he will grow up.
But, I have to tell ya....like the others, I am SO PROUD of you!! You have truly come a long way! Congrats on the new house, continuing w/ your education, and joining the gym!! I truly wish the very best for you!
Continue being the wonderful mom and woman that you are! And, enjoy your many blessings...there's more to come!!
Nope, nothing can surprise anybody when it comes to my ex. Funny that you called him a tool, I remember him calling other guys that behaved exactly how he is behaving these last few years.
It's just really pathetic that he doesn't mind seeing me suffering even at the expense of his own kids.
I did find out that if he is found guilty of not living up to his end of the divorce papers he is required to pay my legal fees that I acquire. Although this is what the law states, I am a little weary of that since I know from experience the judges seem to make up their own laws as they go along.
I am planning on taking him to family court. I did pick up the papers they said I needed to fill out, but they made no sense to me. So I stopped at family court and then they told me they I was given the wrong papers. UGH! So then they gave me the right papers and I will have to file them this coming week.
Wednesday ex dropped kids off late again. Then he proceeded to give S6 a hug, and a hug, and a hug, and a hug,.... outside on the driveway because S6's balloon popped. This went on for 5 minutes until I finally called out for s6 to come inside out of the cold. Ex of course got all nasty and ignored me. So another 5 minutes I called again. Finally S6 came in and ex said at the door, "you know, he needs his father". I said to him "what he could use is a father that pays child support" and then ex said "Oh yeah? Well Bob fired me". Bob is his uncle he works for. This is the 3rd time he has told me this in the last couple of years. I told him he was full of sh!t and he said "Oh yeah? How much you want to bet?" I shut the door on his face because I knew he was full of it.
Yesterday at the bus stop he came to pick the kids up for the weekend. I was there too. My old neighbor asked him how work was and he said "It's ok". I gave him a look and bit my lip. I so wanted to say, "Oh, I thought you were fired?" He is such a chronic liar it is not even funny.
Let him try to tell the state he was fired. I heard they are a great bunch of people to deal with. Hahaha!
That's so funny! I was there last night and live only about 5-10 minutes from there. Not sure how to find you on FB. My name is different on there and we are not allowed to give out much info on here.
