Dom - you have not posted here in a while so I am not for sure if you still visit the board. I am a LBH who (like an idiot) moved out. After moving out I found out about OM. I have been out for over a month now and W no longer communicates w/ me and say she wants a D. She has been dragging her feet on getting the D though. I have seen a L and am contemplating filing myself in an attempt to "do what works" and get her attention.
I read in a post you made on DaveJ's thread where you said if the LBS files first they validate the WAS's decision. Would you mind taking a look at my sitch and giving me your feedback. Is it a good/bad idea for me to file first IYO? Thanks!