Ok, cold war update. Not much to report today. She did take the kids out of school two days early prior to a two week break. So I will have to deal with that. If you can guess, I don't think that's too cool, especially when my sons grades aren't exactly stanford material.
T, I support you. But for effing's sake, why did you let her? You indicated this was your weekend, no?
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Otherwise, nothing to report today. I didn't threaten nor run over anyone, nor try to settle the score with omw (I didn't do this yesterday either). Though she is pretty cute.
T, I couldn't care less what anybody else says ... when you flatten OM I will EITHER be sitting next to you laughing, or will bail you out. Either way, I'm getting on that plane .. just give me the nod ... For those in the know, I was brought up in Glasgow (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glasgow) ... what is donkey says in Shrek 2 (sorry, I have an 8 year old D) ... I'M A STALLION BABY ... Stallion horse face aint but I thought it funny ...
OMW, well ... I think as Dave Grohl (Foo Fighters which I am listening to just know) ... stranger things have happened you know ...
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
Sorry for the misunderstanding. She has the kids thu, fri, and were supposed to split the break. So, she cut out two days early, took them out of school. She did this in November too. Not sure there was much I could do other than just say I don't agree with it. But she doesn't care. She is completely thoughtless.
Sorry for the misunderstanding. She has the kids thu, fri, and were supposed to split the break. So, she cut out two days early, took them out of school. She did this in November too. Not sure there was much I could do other than just say I don't agree with it. But she doesn't care. She is completely thoughtless.
Can you not just say no? Don't know your legal sitch so that may seem naive ...
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
Well I got an email earlier in the week from xw to try and settle up some of her dates upcoming with the kids. Of course vacations are still her #1 priority. Or is that OM, I can't tell. Anyway she started off the email by saying 'it was an interesting week'. To me she was still pointing fingers at me regarding my confrontation with OM, even though she brought him to my house.
She also wanted to clear up the whole 'ring' thing. Apparently it got back through OM from OMW that I had seen this ring. Well the ring, according to her is from our wedding band. I bet OM loves that. Is that not weird? She wears it on her right hand. She also still wears ear rings that I gave her. I think she's lost all her marbles.
She also wanted to have an amicable relationship. I have told her that begins with trust and respect and that's going to take quite awhile.
So, I cleared up the dates and told her it was irresponsible to take the kids out of school, again. She was way off base and lashed out saying how wrong I was and she wasn't changing anything.
So, I quoted her the plan. Three different parts shooting down her BS.
She replied that I was right and that I always had to be right and during our marriage I was always telling her what she was doing wrong. She totally buckled on everything.
This ticked me off. The rewrite of our marriage just kills me. In our first counseling she said one of the reasons she was leaving was because I didn't help out enough in the kitchen and that I liked to watch sports. Then a long time later it was because I was mean to her. I am not mean, only to OM. Now I was telling her she did everything wrong. Next it will be that I beat her. This stuff kills me.
Well I told her I was right because its clearly printed in black and white. It wasn't about me being right, its what she agreed to, what she wanted, I was just paying attention to it.
I think she's a disaster. She travels every weekend she can. OM is a freeloader, she pays for everything. What is she running from. Why does she have this 'need' to go someplace every weekend she possibly can?
I got a txt from xw today. She travelled w the kids to a land far away. She txt that they were getting in late tonight and wanted to know if she could drop off the kids tonigh instead of in the morning.
Sorry, but this smells of selfishness. She's trying to take credit for getting the kids here tonight when she's going to rush home to see om. He dropped his kids off yesterday.
I let her know I'd take the kids and I let her know a few other things too.
Did she just think of this or did she just miss om so much that it became a great idea today? That's the answer cause she can't think more than 5minutes ahead in her life.
My kids don't want to be around om, so they can't wait to get here.
Wondering if he picked them up from the airport and if horseface will be stopping by for some excitement tonight.
Thoutght about this. I would rather my kids be with me then be by themsleves at her house why she and om play twister in the closet. They wouldn't get any attention over there and I just generally feel the less time they spend with her, the better. Plus, both my kids asked me if they could come home tonight, I don't know how I could say no to that nor do I have a good reason other than making it a challenge for om and xw to be selfish pigs.
I think you're going to have to do that sometime though. She can get away playing twister as they know you always play ball. Good old Tostada will take the kids. Good old T will be flexible with us.
And I know what you are saying about the kids. Maybe mummy playing twister in the closet will make them realise how selfish she is being which, in turn, will (hopefully) rub off on her.
It's just food for though. Nothing more. I just think you are waaay too predictable. Throw a 180 in there. Stand your ground. Say NO.
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
XW being a beotch this morning...if you remember I asked for her to drop off the kids passports when she dropped off the kids. Well the kids came here last night. They both told me they wanted to come here because OM was there and they didnt want to be there when he was...
So....she wouldnt drop off passports unless she knew where I was taking them. What a hypocrite....she took the kids on two trips, requiring flights, that she gave me no info about...Now she needs info on my plans...I wouldnt give in, nor tell her anything. Then, she says I'm not allowed to leave the country, unless I have a notarized note, from her. I dont know anything about this. I have 50% custody, I am their dad, and if I have their passports, I dont see what the issue is.
I told her I have as much rights to those passports as she does and I recommend she drop them off, and, if she wants to make this difficult, I can certainly ramp up a bit.
She says 'oh, you are so threatening'...
well guess what...she dropped off the passports....then went on another vacation with OM...they couldnt wait to get out of town. Paris and Tiger on the road again.
For those in the know, I was brought up in Glasgow (