Well after talking with the sheriff, I couldn't press charges. They were criminal charges and I just couldn't bring myself to do it.She has a state license and that could jeopardize that renewal, her income and maybe my children. The next time, if there is one, I won't have a say as the record is kept on file.
So I took a copy of the signed waiver and hand wrote the following - Forgiving is a gift you give yourself- (I think it's from DB or DR), Thanks for the things we shared, Always S.
I Left it in her car. When she left she got to the end of drive and I could see she stopped, I knew she was reading it.
She called and I answered the 2nd time.
She was balling again -" Why can't you be in the same room with me?"
I said " I am very confused right now"
She said " Okay - I'll let you go"
I thought by my forgiving her I showed I had moved beyond a$$hole and by telling her thanks for the memories basically was an As If move. What do you think?
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
I do this because she is confrontational, and the space cools things off. I don't do well with confrontation it = a$$hole is what I've been told by some of the vets on here. And she's good at picking the fight.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
If she is concerned about being in the same room as you after she had an affair then I would get the point accross to her that you are "done". This should give her the feeling that she has lost something.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
If she is concerned about being in the same room as you after she had an affair then I would get the point accross to her that you are "done". This should give her the feeling that she has lost something.
Yes I'm sure that is why she was crying.
Evidently she still has not allowed the atty to file. I told her he wasn't returning my calls as he said he would. She said she would check on the status today.
Seems odd to push that - but it is where she put it and it is her choice.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
Heading for a blow up here I know it. She called around me to tell the kids she was going to pick them up and go do something.
Than she called me to ask. " I said " Wrong, we are going to talk first, your not going to keep treating them and then just drop them off here so I can do there home work while you leave every night."
"You can take them this time, but this position of you taking them for fun and leaving me for their chores and homework is gonna stop. Your giving impressions that are wrong."
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
