I think its interesting that you made that statement "She set rules and firmly put her foot down with him and listed what he can and cannot do as per her and he is abiding by her rules"....... I think that definately deserves more pondering.........
It is true and he follows this because he has nowhere else to go except to live on the streets.
If there is one thing I have noticed is that there is role-reversal. It is as if the woman becomes the man and vice versa. Many things would have never flown in a marriage and certainly not mine.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yes, the kids and I are going to have a really good Christmas. We are going to one house Christmas Eve, and someone else's Christ. Day.
My friend said on Christmas Day, we are going to "kick it" and relax, drink some wine, and eat. I was like yea, I need some wine.
Really, it will be fun.
Maybe H is thinking. I do not know. We are here doing our thing.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you, and I hope you also have a nice Christmas.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thank you, Snodderly--means a lot to me. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas as well.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
We do have a slight problem. Actually, it is not MY problem. If my son has to meet with the probation officer after sentencing on Monday, he will fail the drug test and as a result, will most likely get sent to jail for six months.
I am not sure how this works since he is not under any rules now.
It might just be me and the girls from now on.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
