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Outstanding thinking, I'll take some Bailey's then.

Yeah, and Happy New Year, we're back up to just about 30F, then tomorrow night for the festivities, it's going to plummet back down to 0 or below, and not get out of the teens until Monday. Ahhh, life in Chicago. And to think, I'm spending New Years watching a band, in a tent in the greatest weather of the year! Who could ask for anything more?

Here you are!

Ahhh, dang it! Virtual just don't cut it.

You're telling me!

I may need chocolate to make up for the disappointment.

ROFLMAO,

And out of left field comes................

My B and SIL had their baby yesterday! It's their 3d child, but their first boy. AND, our dad got his first grandson on HIS birthday!

Congrats!

Thanks!!!!

Now I have a nephew to go with my two nieces! Lol.

And I have no excuse for forgetting his birthday!

Congrats!! And just think you didn't have to do anything to get him! happy New Year!

kat

So, after not hearing from XH in how long again? I've forgotten. I got a Happy New Year's text from him. I didn't reply. I really didn't know what to say.

I still feel like there's too much crap (i.e. too little trust and consideration) to be friends. There's too many bad memories. And sadly, there had to be for me to finally get to the point where I could walk away.

It makes me wonder if that's how he felt when he ignored my calls and texts. If he had that much resentment, or if he reacted from some other emotion.

I guess I will never really know the answer to that. Just my random philosophical musings.

I had a good new years. Went to a dinner party. Drank a lot of good wine. Had a lot of good food. Crashed at said friend's house. Went to pizza and watched part of the Rose Bowl. It was relaxing.

RB is at a guy's night tonight. I took a long bath and am watching the NCIS marathon.

Tomorrow morning is my first 5k of 2010!