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So you tried contacting military one source? You should get live people 24/7. I strongly encourage you to do that.

Stop trying to figure him out. Ill bet that he isnt even sure why hes doing and saying the things that hes doing. What is important now is YOU. I know that hes not a terrible man, you wouldnt love him if he was, but right now, he is re-writing your history together to support and defend his position. He is only remembering and telling people about the bad things so that he doesnt look so bad walking out. Yes, its a disgusting way for a man to behave, but there isnt a dang thing that you can do to change it.

You however, have incredible control over how you behave, and how you respond. Have you set any goals for yourself? Or read and of the DB books? Go around to some of the other threads and say hi and read up on some other situations, it will give you perspective, and some tips, and it will also increase traffic over here at your place.

Your ?'s in the next little while need to be about you and the kids and how you are going to make things easier and better for you guys.

Unfortunately, right now, you need to let him travel his road alone... anything else will drive him farther away.

And, you need to save the phone bills that have the evidence of those phone calls on them. This is harrassment and absolutely unacceptable. Seriously, please do this. Make copies, file them away in a safe place.

he got the phone in korea i dont have any info from that phone i only have my phone info

ooooo yes my phone i do i have copies they post on line and i print them

exactly, if you hear from this woman again, you do have action that you can take. Its stalking, and I wont keep my mouth shut while you put up with it!

i reported the # to my phone company and i have the prove she has not called again since that day....

what do i do when the trip gets closer... i do want to see him... and im not sure how would i be treated by him or if he is saying things about me that are not right... to his friends if i see them when i get there if they would treat me different.

When is the trip?

i just did that and they did nothing but said to me they will schedule an appointment i just called them gave them my info and thats what they said i dont want this to hurt him in any way...

jan. 4