get caught? phone? see each other less? slow it down see each other when we can? less?
i'm not living 18 more years this way?
Josh was right
Sounds like a plan to me, What do you think?
BAH! what you can expect.
"these notes are nothing. you dont know what your are talking about. why are you going through my stuff anyway? are you somekind of weirdo? let me have my privacy. you want a divorce right before christmas. you want to wreck the kids christmas. all you care about is yourself. you are a complete a-hole. just leave me alone. you have no idea what you are talking about. FU"
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
so lets see here.
you stood up to her. you called her bluff. and she goes ape $hit on you. I told ya you can't win. stop trying.
stop trying,
I think you should put her in the mirror and show her what it is like to have a spouse who could care less about them or their marriage.
Mirror what she is doing to you. I believe it would have a greater affect on her little fantasy then being served with divorce papers.
you really dont need to start dating yet, but have you found yourself a girlfriend?
threatening divorce right before christmas is not the most effective way to save your marriage. your new years resolution should be to become counter-intuitive.
get caught? phone? see each other less? slow it down see each other when we can? less?
i'm not living 18 more years this way?
Josh was right
Sounds like a plan to me, What do you think?
- finding "notes" while cleaning a car sounds like something she wrote down on paper Greek, it doesn't sound like email or texts.
Well that's what I thought, robx, but who leaves that laying around? Just didn't make sense to me. Either she is really dumb or she is working some plan. Probably the latter. Isn't she the one who said she planted texts on her phone to catch him snooping??? Gosh, I'm getting these chicks confused - can't remember who is doing what! But if that was her, maybe this 'note' is another one of her goofy ideas.
Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
in your first post you mentioned that the OM wife knows.
what is her deal? are they a 'swinging couple' or is she just hopelessly co-dependent? have to spoken to her about putting an end to this 'romance' once and for all?
I have talked to OMW several times. She is a cheater/he's a cheater and Yes she is very dependant. OM is a multi time offender and she hasn't broke it off with him. She tipped me off and has given me lots of info.
W told me this morning she just doesn't feel it here anymore. Doesn't know if she wants a divorce but doesn't know if she does either. Says it is over with OM and has been as far as PA and she isn't interested in dating anyone she is to f*d right now to think about it.
Her solution is seperation without divorce in order to clear her head?
That's what she said last time, and it turned into this A and a mind full (hers) of crap.
I ain't interested in that road again.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
proceed with filing, either way, if you continue doing what you're doing with your wife, you're living in limbo and you don't need that, you deserve to live your life with certainty and if she isn't prepared to devote energy & action into making your marriage something she wants to be part of then you are stuck with someone who doesn't want to be married to you and how much fun is that for you?
