Hmm... the website could be titled "The G Spot" (nice one Silverado) and its members could be called "the unGnowns." Then depending on the outcome the mascot would be "Mrs Gno-me" or "Mrs Gno-more" ...
Heck if you guys like it you could call yourselves "Gnomes"
My plan and implementation is for me alone. It is strategic, highly manipulative and dangerous. There are risks involved. There will be consequences for my actions. I could lose her forever. One more thing I'd like to add, it took me a long time to get to this point.
So... as they say on TV... DON'T TRY THIS AT HOME.
The best of luck, friend. I, for one, don't have the courage... yet... to try anything like what you've been planning. You know, better than anyone else, what you need to do.
I'm right w/you, in the spirit of support.
I love my H. I will persevere to preserve this M. I'm thankful for your support, as well.
Last edited by mindfull; 12/17/0903:08 PM. Reason: Had to LOL re: Silver - G-SPOT Hahahahaa
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Hmm... the website could be titled "The G Spot" (nice one Silverado) and its members could be called "the unGnowns." Then depending on the outcome the mascot would be "Mrs Gno-me" or "Mrs Gno-more" ...
Heck if you guys like it you could call yourselves "Gnomes"
LOL I LOVE it!!!!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
Folks, this may sound like fun, but it isn't. This isn't a revenge ploy and its not an easy thing to do. I'm intentionally going all out to push her buttons -- but ALWAYS with the intention of shocking her back to reality. There will be pain for which I'll have to make amends for in the future.
I hope this whole "groupie" thing is a way relieve your own stress. I didn't start my thread to "build a following" because I'm not a role-model to follow. Ladies, please do not apply these tactics to your own situations. Although they are similar when used against a man they yield different results.
We follow you G - not because we think you are a super hero but we see...thru all your pain and suffering...your perserverance....patience and love for your wife. It probably makes us feel our husbands do actually have a brain and maybe they DO think about things.
I know that no matter what happens in your sitch you'll be ok - I know this. Don't be scared - we are here with you!
My plan and implementation is for me alone. It is strategic, highly manipulative and dangerous. There are risks involved. There will be consequences for my actions. I could lose her forever. One more thing I'd like to add, it took me a long time to get to this point.
So... as they say on TV... DON'T TRY THIS AT HOME.
What the heck happened? LOL damn I messed this up big time - READ inbetween these quotes for my response!
Last edited by luvless; 12/17/0903:16 PM.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
Understood, G. I am not trying to make light of your sitch. Please do not think otherwise. At times it is easier to inject a little humor, because quite frankly, some days that is all I have. I completely understand that each sitch is unique. I fully understand the tactics that you are applying probably will not work in my stich. You have developed a fan base of your own strictly from the way you have demonstrated to us the courage and strength that you possess in addition to the great advice you provide. We admire this in you and only pray and hope that your wife will eventually see these qualities too. We appreciate the difficulties that you are going through and can relate to this in one way or another. A time like these is not easy to get through and is something that should not be done alone.
As I have said in the past, I am here to support you and if my humor has crossed a line, then I sincerely apologize.
Mo3
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
LOL. I missed the other posts you made while typing mine up. Sometimes I read too much into things. Hmm. Isn't that called mindreading? I have got to work on that.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
Folks, this may sound like fun, but it isn't. This isn't a revenge ploy and its not an easy thing to do. I'm intentionally going all out to push her buttons -- but ALWAYS with the intention of shocking her back to reality. There will be pain for which I'll have to make amends for in the future.
So are you going to try your own secret technique without getting input?
"Discretion is the better part of valor."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
And one for thing, I APPRECIATE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU here.
If I hadn't found this board I'd have pulled the trigger on my M some time ago. I have come to understand my wife better from reading the ladies' posts. In each and every thread there is a gold nugget.
I've increased my knowledge about patience, understanding, empathy, sympathy and level-headedness. Through the hardball players (you know who you are) I've reconnected with my original self and been reminded that masculine traits are totally OK.
The most important thing I have learned throughout this ordeal is to KNOW yourself. Constant self-analysis and introspection is of paramount importance. Identify the mistakes in your own behavior and correct them. They will help you live a more fulfilled life in the future. This is along the biblical lines of
Physician heal thyself and
First remove the plank from your own eye before removing the splinter in your brother's
So, thanks to every single person who has shared their story and thanks to all the others who selflessly help others with their insights.
but we see...thru all your pain and suffering...your perserverance....patience and love for your wife. It probably makes us feel our husbands do actually have a brain and maybe they DO think about things.