Lots of school fundraisers/activities, applying for college, getting ready for winter camp, etc.
Have had some close friends die in auto accidents the day before Thanksgiving, one of them being my D17's principal and his 16 year old son.
Still no job but have another interview the end of this week.
Have been doing some baking for people who have requested my fudge and Greek pastries.
We will be going over to friends homes for Christmas Eve and some other friends on Christmas Day.
Not a peep out of H at all. Girls have not seen him since July and S19 has not seen him since the middle of November.
H's car does not work at all, and he is still over there.
Other than that, we are doing quite well.
Wishing you all a Blessed Christmas.
Last edited by MidwesternGirl; 12/14/0910:41 PM.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
HEY MWG! HOpe you have a very MErry Christmas too!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Merry Christmas to you! I hope things are going well for your S... I really hope the job works out for you, I do know that you are running out of time with that situation.......... Maybe this will be a great Christmas Gift for you. As for your H..... I'm not even going to respond nor inquire about him.........
My H--nothing going on at all. He is still over there doing nothing.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yes, he will have ow and her family the entire time which is a good thing.
He probably is tired of it all but cannot do a darned thing about it. His car does not run at all and he has absolutely no money.
Ow has him right where she wanted him and that is to herself and away from his family. She hated that he had contact with us in the past. Now, he has no contact with me or the girls and very little contact with S.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, Your H put HIMSELF where he is at, no one else! He had a car that ran for a long time, he didn't try to find a job. This man has truly made his own bed and needs to be MADE TO LAY IN IT! This "blaming the OW" stuff has got to stop!
I am not blaming ow for where he is. I pointed out that she set rules and firmly put her foot down with him and listed what he cannot do as per her and he is abiding by her rules because he chose to stay there.
I did not blame ow for his car troubles or for his misery.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
