M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Now she is saying she won't go if i have another atty - via texts.
I can just use the one and she will stay out and wait for papers. She even said you can F me on the D if you want to, take the kids, I know your being sh*tty.
Is this fog or denial or I guess it's all fog? I mean how sh*tty is it to cheat on your S?
So plan B - If she doesn't show? What do I do?
It's victimhood. She still doesn't want to be authentic - and that is her deal. Not yours. You don't have to explain or justify what you do. Doing so just gives her more material to manipulate ("All this over one text!") Stiff upper lip, OB. She's flailing!
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
Now she is saying she won't go if i have another atty - via texts.
I can just use the one and she will stay out and wait for papers. She even said you can F me on the D if you want to, take the kids, I know your being sh*tty.
Is this fog or denial or I guess it's all fog? I mean how sh*tty is it to cheat on your S?
So plan B - If she doesn't show? What do I do?
how far along in the divorce process are you?
have you already decided how to divide assests and debt, custody and support and this was a contract signing or was this an initial consultation?
Both of us have consulted, her atty gave her some doc's to fill out so he could fill in the blanks. No contest -cheap and qwik. Both parties agree - no sense in spending a bunch of time and money type D.
All that paperwork has been filled out. I gave her a check to get it done and she still has not.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
Both of us have consulted, her atty gave her some doc's to fill out so he could fill in the blanks. No contest -cheap and qwik. Both parties agree - no sense in spending a bunch of time and money type D.
All that paperwork has been filled out. I gave her a check to get it done and she still has not.
and you were happy with what was decided? you both were?
Stick by your guns, she is going to really going to lose it. A wild dog in a fight is at its most viscious, wild and scary state, right before it submits and then it becomes the most docile.
