I'm guessing X got the message or email I'm requesting temp. alimony. He's back to his usual self: He emailed this just now: All the negative nasty and untrue things that have been said about me and much more importantly the kids by your lawyer, your witnesses and you in the course of this case are your responsibility. the kids may well review the documents related to this case some day and i am glad i didn't put forward the things you have.
Do you think I should just ignore this? First of all, my witnesses and I didn't ever lie. I also don't think I'm responsible for other people's actions and words, even if they had lied, which they didn't.
Don't respond, it is so not worth it! You are right, he knows about the alimony and he is pissed. He's right, the kids may see it someday, he sounds like the type who will show them to try to turn them against you. You told the truth, nothing more, nothing less. When the kids are old enough they will understand that.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
I think he needs to make the case as to why he thinks he or the kids deserve more than the 1.5 days per week. Again he's just trying to badger you into reacting unwisely.
Let him twist in the wind. NC when he is just venting at you and being nasty.
Thats right, if he doesnt have anything decent to say then he might as well not be saying anything at all! Because thats the response hell get- nothing at all! Maybe hell figure it out, when hes pleasant, he gets responses, when hes a *@#&face, he gets nothing... If a dog can figure it out, Im sure that eventually your snake of an STBXH will soon enough!
Just save it in the file and go on with your day!
BTW- I am super jealous that you are in Fla right now!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
You all are right! He still knows how to push my buttons. Yeah, the pastor's wife is a real nasty liar. Right....I didn't email back on your advice, and so glad I didn't.
I had asked X if he would switch weekends so I could have next weekend and he could have the kids this weekend as she has a couple Christmas choir things next weekend. He emailed back, No, can't switch b/c OW and I have plans for this weekend. I mean I think he said that purposely to hurt me; he could have just said he was busy or had plans. Oh, well, just reinforces my desire to go NC and esp. when he's acting like lately. D10 told me today X was complaining about me, and she told me he needs to look on the bright side as he's always looking on the dark side.
