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What hey were D sisters... both our H signed on the same day. Maybe they are having an affair together? LMAO

No really it's sad.... I boohooed when he signed it.

That there is funny! Good that you can have some humor in this heart breaking time.

You still have a tough road ahead if Dan has been hiding assets.

Come to think of it SandyCay, maybe your H signed so quick because he found the lost mine or the Treasure of Sierra Madre.

D@mn Kerry ... you think if he could find that

that he could look up his @ss and find his head!


OK that was mean I apologize ;-0

He did that thing he does tonight...sigh...

He came over this evening. I forgot it was his night! He usually doesn't have Mondays. I said something re. his taking 8 weeks to decide and he said, "I think I am still deciding" or something like that...

Didnt matter. I changed the subject. Then I left and went shopping. Got some Christmas presents taken care of. Decided I would rather pay a little extra than fight the lines on Friday. Still had to order Nathan's gift online because 3 stores were out of stock...bummer! At least I found it!

OK in dire need of sleep. Good night.............

OH I am going to hand deliver the receipt to the atty tomorrow afternoon vs. mail it. Want to make sure it is there before the holiday.

Superfoxes do not need men who can't decide if they want them...

That's right... we are superfoxes baby!

you finally get freedom...

you finally get the anchor that has been holding you back off your neck..

you finally get to stop walking on eggshells

now you get to set some boundaries that have some meaning..

WOW......bobbijo.....wish I could have your mindset.
I'm in a very very similar situation. Affair with best friend, been together since high school, one son 2.5 years old.
Trying to face I'm going to have to let go of my high school sweetheart, the only thing I've ever known and loved. Let go of my family, etc. All of it. None of my needs are being met, I'm not happy, but scared very scared to be alone, scared I'm never going to find anyone. I'm reading Codependent No More. It's helping.

We're heading to counseling for the first time in two years today but frankly it's probably too late.

so nice to see that your SofH continues on strong. Keep it strengthened! So needed.

Don't waste the pretty...