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Hey Trent,

Thanks for your comments.

I have to stay home with the kids or I would love to go out.

Wow am I ever tired today?

I think I will be in bed.

I'm know her and she will start talking about it and how we need to deal with the kids and blah blah blah.

Not there yet is right. Still a long way to go.

We are moving next week.

Hey Everyone,

Okay she went. Even when she was on the way I could feel myself being pissed off.

I knew she would talk about it when she came home so I made sure I was in bed.

She banged around when she came in. She also said "you where right we shouldn't deal with anything until after we move"

No s**t. I just made a sleepy grunt and went to sleep.

All night she had nightmares and kept waking me up. At one point she asked me to put my arm around her which I did.

We were all "businsess" this morning.

Move in 4 days

Uggg

Okay so we got moved. Man I am so burnt out from that and all of the stuff going on.

I was feeling very resentful of her yesterday and my attitude showed that.

I can tell she is feeling a bit weird or something. Keeps saying this is such a nice house and stuff.

I didn't say it but I felt like saying yeah too bad your moving eh?

Still sleeping in the same bed. That is also getting to me. Wake up last night with her spooning me. I won't ask but my guess is she would say she was cold.

Happy the move is done and love MY new house but I am feeling emotionally drained, touched starved and a bit lonely.

A friend of mine once said something very profound:

"Moving sucks."

I couldn't disagree.

Puppy

For sure it sucks.

Especially a long distance move.

That's one thing I keep saying. I am NEVER moving again

Okay so I'm just talking to her on the phone.

We are chatting and laughing so I decide to leave on a high note and say I gotta go.

She says okay "Love you" and hangs up. WTF

Is that just an old habit dies hard or is there anything to read into that?

Or is this just more wading through the bulls**t

It's probably out of habit; my wife has said "I love you" a couple of times in a similar vein.

Just take it for what it is; a nice sentiment.

Habit.

Okay fair enough.

Last night was another "Interesting one".

I come home and my son and daughter are at the next door neighbours house playing. So after I walk the dog I go over (keep in mind we just moved yesterday) and hang out with the couple and spend about 1 hour with them. Awesome people, kids get along great and I am really happy we have them next door.

I take the kids home we eat and the wife wants to hear all about it. I am clearly happy and feeling good.

A little later I say I am going to the local home center for drywall anchors. Since my wife's friends son is with us she says she wants to come with me and asks him to watch the kids.

I was really suprised but was happy to spend time with her. Very light harted convesation on the way joking / laughing and having a good time.

She is telling me about all the people she met at my sons school and stuff. She says I was telling so and so about you and "when I talk about you I remember how much I like you" and then trails off.

WOW WTF?? I didn't even comment on it or say anything. We got a coffee and went home.

I was beat so I went to bed soon after and about 1 1/2 later I wake up and hear her in bed crying.

I asked are you crying? What is wrong and she says "good night".

I left this morning before anyone was up.

Do I mention the crying again? Actually now that I read it I should wait until (if) she brings it up.

The other comment blew me away. I won't read much into it.

Just trying to be COOL

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