I disagree with the WAS script. I believe it is a spouse being able to vocalize their frustration and resentment. It is healing for them to get it out. The LBS can't take it personally and doesn't need to buy into their reality. Two people witness the exact same incident and have different recollection. That's why police interview all the witnesses. It's life. The LBS needs to use an imaginary umbrella, and very thick raincoat & let the WAS emotionally throw up & get it out into the open. Then and only then, can the two people begin to communicate without the buried anger and resentment.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Cookie, your writing skills and style are as great as ever. You are a special one.
Hey Montana can you provide a lot more background. You have not provided enough information and I fear you might start following advice offered when no one really knows what is going on with you.
IF you see the tension easing, then perhaps stay the path. 3 weeks is not that long.
The advice you will get from the Puppy/Gucci/Robx is hardline affair battling stuff. If your wife has no OM, then perhaps a kindler gentler path would serve you best...but see, now I am giving you advice but until I know more, my advice also is worth, at best, what you are paying for it.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
