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Re: Need some advice from experienced DBer's Gardener #1881476 11/25/09 06:39 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 516 Midwest M motherof3 OP Member
OP motherof3 Member M Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 516 Midwest	Originally Posted By: Gardener Thoughts from an experienced, though unsuccessful DBer. Gardener, To be a sucessful DBer doesn't mean the R/M is saved. Think about all the positive changes you have made in your life. Look at the person you have become. That, my friend, is something to be proud of. You did succeed. Mo3 Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning

Re: Need some advice from experienced DBer's givingitmyall #1881488 11/25/09 06:52 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	Thanks, Gima, Originally Posted By: givingitmyall Quote: Thoughts from an experienced, though unsuccessful DBer. Oh, not so. Think you are not properly defining the term "success." And you know that. Yeah, but I sure didn't Bust my Divorce! Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Need some advice from experienced DBer's motherof3 #1881490 11/25/09 06:53 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	mo3, Thank you. Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Need some advice from experienced DBer's Gardener #1881492 11/25/09 06:53 PM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 3,844 Southeast G givingitmyall Member
givingitmyall Member G Joined: May 2009 Posts: 3,844 Southeast	Originally Posted By: Gardener Thanks, Gima, Originally Posted By: givingitmyall Quote: Thoughts from an experienced, though unsuccessful DBer. Oh, not so. Think you are not properly defining the term "success." And you know that. Yeah, but I sure didn't Bust my Divorce! Yep, but that's not the goal now, is it? Remember, it takes TWO to make a M work, and only ONE to rip it apart. Me 43, S11, D7 M13 Bomb 4/20/09 Current

Re: Need some advice from experienced DBer's givingitmyall #1881506 11/25/09 07:02 PM
Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut G Gardener Member
Gardener Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 3,831 Connecticut	Gima, Originally Posted By: givingitmyall Yep, but that's not the goal now, is it? Remember, it takes TWO to make a M work, and only ONE to rip it apart. But the book says it takes only one to stop the divorce slide: I want a refund! Okay, enough with that. "We now return you to to our regularly scheduled program - Motherof3's Call For Advice, already in progress." Gardener "My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac

Re: Need some advice from experienced DBer's Gardener #1881535 11/25/09 07:18 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon T TrentC Member
TrentC Member T Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon	Originally Posted By: Gardener But the book says it takes only one to stop the divorce slide: I want a refund! That was a typo. Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement "Every day is another chance to get it right."

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