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me too! words are so cheap!


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yes, it is script. it doesn't mean it isn't true, tho. also doesn't mean that he didn't mean it at the time. you have to remember that your good memories are just as valid (or more so) as his re-written history. at some point in the future, all of this will settle into something that makes much more sense than it does when we're in the midst of it.


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Thank you Hoosier for reminding me of that...

Can't believe I almost fell for that line crazy


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don't despair! what I meant is--you'll really have to have some perspective on this time as it gets integrated with the rest of your life to know if it has been lived out.


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Very true...

I see that dreaded word "time" in your post lol...

Always seems to come back to that which then reminds me of my lack of patience (something I am working on)...

Thank you for your insight. smile


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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
The newest one I got was I will always love you because you are the mother of our sons -
BLECH -
Don't do me any favors bucko. sick
Finishing up the day with a good, loud laugh with this one! laugh laugh
Good night tired
p.s. ya gotta typo in the word next to the green face. You accidentally put a "b".
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"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac


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Glad to oblige (((Gardener))) Have a great night!

What typo??

Oh geez nevermind - Blonde moment kicking in crazy


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Yeah, I got that one too. " I care about you, you are the girls father."

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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
Very true...

I see that dreaded word "time" in your post lol...

Always seems to come back to that which then reminds me of my lack of patience (something I am working on)...

Thank you for your insight. smile

It's really hard to be patient when one is suffering. Don't be so hard on yourself! Just know that it does get better. One way or the other--it gets better.


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Hoosier, just noticed we are in the same city! Howdy neighbor!


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