City Girl - Is there any way you could check out my sitch ("Just want me H back" in newcomers)? You give such excellent advice and I had followed your thread when you were actively posting awhile back. I have some similarities w folks about about these lengthy separations w no positive movement/momentum... when or how to reignite things w possible friendship or just take a hard stance and move on/push D yourself? Not at all what I want but H and I separated for a year and he's made no movement either way. I guess a lot are in this sitch. Many thanks and SORRY for hijack!
I see you titled your thread that you wanted a WAW point of view. Sorry, but you aren't likely to be getting any. The WAWs that were on this forum have mostly left. And I doubt any new ones will ever post here.
It's not even necessary! As you can see, everyone already knows what we think and it's all bad.
We only try to justify ourselves. Our version of things isn't true. It's mostly important to never listen to anything we say. On occasion you can even heap verbal abuse on WAWs right here without impunity. You might find that very cathartic. I don't know though, because I am in a fog and should never be taken seriously.
I only check in one thread now, trying to help convince a lovely person that she is NOT a terrible WAW but needs to get to a safe place.
Good luck with your situation though. You will make friends here and get support during this very difficult time.
Thanks Breakaway.
The fog is thick from the ajoining oceans.
Us LBS's need to reinvent the present as a defence mechanism. They are conflicting strategies.
