yuck - home from work at 2am. slept til about 8.....that's pretty good, right? husband is coming home from the west coast tonight. i plan to be out in the city when he gets here. the sad part is he will probably be relieved he did call yesterday morning, to ask if it were ok that he meet a friend of his in the city on monday. said he wanted to make sure it was not on our mc night than he asked me to get him and his friend tix to a tv show and thought that maybe my son and i would like to go as well i told him i would get the tickets and that i wasn't sure whether i would come blah...blah..blah... just venting happy sunday to you all
help! starting to feel guilty about going out tonight....my husband is coming home from 3 days on the road and i was all set to be out when he got here my well meaning and mostly very wise sister said that if i am trying to work things out, i should be here when he gets home it also didn't help that he left a voicemail telling saying that he was at the airport on his way home (yes, i am reading into the fact that he used that word) and letting me know when he would get to the east coast help!!!!! i think i am still going to go out
went out and all i did was talk about him....oh well when i got home, he told me i looked great. smiled like he was happy to see me, we talked about our son and laughed a bit and then i ruined it by going into the bathroom to be sick i tried to be clandestine, but he knocked on my door a few minutes later and said that he and our son were concerned then he asked when our next mc session was...... i still can't sleep i am meeting him in the city tomorrow, with our child to go to a tv taping as a favor to his friend did i mention that this sucks? sorry....it is after 5 am
Maybe time to speak to your md to get on something to settle you down a bit. The more you do this the better you will become at it. Your feeling guilty for going out for a night, how about your husband thinking about leaving forever! Get your mind right, and think about going out again very soon. Do you have a girlfriend that you could go to dinner with this week?
burt, that's good point! he also left a message while i was out that he made it home and was fine.......and of course i read too much into that. that is a very hard thing not to do....read into what he says
No, you are trying to read his mind which you cannot, better to just let go and enjoy yourself, look superhot, and smell real nice. It would make me wonder what the hell my wife was up to I tell you that.
hello, I think you situation is a little similar to mine, in the fact that it doesnt seem to be about OW and your husband felt that you two werent happy. And he is away alot which seemed to distance him. My husband is in the military and is currently in Iraq, has been for 6 months and that seemed to distance him and make him think we werent happy and I have no indication that there is OW involved. I read somewhere else that you posted that your situation got better after a couple months, what is your status now? And what advise could you give me?
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