She's justifying. Trying to make herself out to be the "saintly, good mom" and the whole family out as "we'll all be okay".
"Normalizing." It's SCRIPT.
Puppy
Any suggestions of a response?
Saturday:
Not to eventful of a night. I went and got a haircut, bought a few new clothes came home had a shower and shaved.
She says you look good. How do I look? You look good was all I could say.
She said do you have a date. I said yeah would that be a problem. "Nope" and walks away.
Put the kids to bed. I told her I was going to a meeting she said what time is your date I said 8:00 and left.
Her sister came tonight so of course she is feeling okay with her hear. She did say she was NOT going to tell her about the the separation or divorce or whatever it is. I responded that was her choice I would say nothing.
They went out for the day and I am hanging out with the kids.
Feeling a bit low and well horney but I won't let her see it. I did notice from the computer history she has been looking at Appartment / Condos in the new town we are moving to. A bit of a bummer but "Acceptance is the key to all of my problems today".
She keeps say "are you okay". My response is alway "yeah fine"
The computer I could use a key logger but I'm not sure ...
Does she spend a lot of time on there? Most affair communications are cellphone TMs only these days. If she does use the computer, however, a keylogger would quickly do the trick, and it could also turn up username/passwords that might be useful.
Don't do this unless you think you can handle what you see, however.
