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It sounds like you are getting along as well as can be expected. Sure, there will be more ups and downs, but you're prepared.

Good for you.

Just an update. Things are going great. We have been doing a lot of talking and this weekend she is moving her stuff back. She also put her resignation in at her job because right now her priority is her family and work is a distraction. Can we do it financiallyN yes, it will be tough but who can put a price on a busted divorce! Things have not been this good between us for years and the future looks good. I will update again in a few days and keep checking in on everyone else who is working hard.

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Good for you. How are you feeling?

I'm feling pretty good...everything is going really well but me internally...there is a lot to get over and get through. I feel like I am getting my wife and family back but I know this is a process that will take time to work through. It does look good though!

Good for you guys.

Take it slow.

Best of luck!!!!

I am trying but things are moving fast. I will take what I can get though and do my best!!

How's it going?

Well it was going good until early last week. Someone contacted me and told me my wife had recently talked to one of the OM's in our sitch. Everything had been going great until I find this out and she is really depressed now because she is frustrated with her actions. It kills me too because whatever we had built back up was just tore down. She crossed a major boundary by having contact, not telling me about it, then minimizing it when confronted by me.

The only thing that got me past this is that she is no longer at her job and she really has been putting a lot of effort towards our relationship.

I am wore out though. I can put on a good face but I find myself asking how much of a sucker can I be? I hope there is a good outcome for all that I have sacrificed for this M.