All sounding good news, so pleased for you! Think Im sorta with Dia need to get the R talk started some how but no-one is brave enough to get going on it yet lol!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Thanks for your input on my thread Oz, glad to hear things are going well with you, Im going to plan a date with H, think that is a better route, we are still caught up in the few things we already had planned for this weekend so hes sorta said lets get to know each other but with no space to do so. Hope you have a lovely weekend will be thinking of you and wishing you well!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Weekend wasn't as good as expected as I ended up with a nasty dose of food poisoning and was sick as Friday night, not very romantic. H was a bit put out as he had gone to a lot of trouble planning the weekend, but that is life and I didn't plan to get sick.
In any case, we made up for the Friday night flop with a Saturday night success.
Hoping we can plan a weekend away on our anniversary which is approaching on 16th November, so will have to work my charms on H to get things moving on that front. That will be our last chance to get away before D's graduation from high school and then we have birthday's and christmas looming.
Aww, sorry to hear about the food poisoning. That blows! Glad the rest of the weekend went well, though. Keep us updated on how things are going - and keep your eyes peeled for any backsliding.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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I think the backslide happened when I got sick. He got all sulky and said he felt cheated, said he was going to walk out of the hotel on me that night, even though I was sick as. I think he really felt I did it on purpose which has no logic to it whatsoever, he even said he thought I was drunk which I wasn't. Even said he wasn't sure if he was prepared to keep working on our R or just to give up. WTF I thought.
It took some serious DBing on the Saturday afternoon to bring him round again. Just goes to show you that even once they say they are committing to you again, small things can trip them off again.
I know he still has some insecurities with me due to his jealous streak, so that has to be monitored as well.
You are right, they are forever now tools, but I tell you my heart sank when he said the things he did, I thought oh no, I can't do all this over again.
