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Thanks LR

Certainly do need more time for shopping for naughty nighties.

Oh excellent Oz - so thrilled for you.

Whilst you are out buying naughty nighties, I'm buying cuddly cardigans to keep me warm (the mornings are so cold here)!

Glad that you are going to GAL at the weekend. I'm sure that H will be more keen to contact you now whilst he's away, too.

Keep up the good work and showing us the way forward!

Have a fun time! I also am realizing the importance of taking much more "me-time" than I did in the past. Read somewhere that in olden days when families and neighborhoods were much more tightly knit, women got more of their talking and emotional needs met by their female friends and family...but since we are all so disconnected and short of time these days - our men end up with more demand for this from their woman than they are able to know how to handle. I see the author's point but also think that doesn't excuse the way men so many men these days spend whole evenings hiding behind their computer screens.

Hi everyone

If any of you have been over to Dia's you would have seen I asked for some advice of a sexual nature. Something my H had wanted me to do.

So last night was the night to abandon any self consciousness that I may have had and go for it.

Following Dia's, Lotus' and Ketrricken's advice and suggestions the evening began with:

Black negligee, cheeky sexy underwear underneath and sky high black patent stilletos.

The look on H's face was priceless.

Did a striptease, then teased H with some floral gardening (see Dia's post for the explanation), then slowly eased into the "show", complete with back arching and vocals.

H was suitably impressed and it took all his self control to not take over.

A fun time was had by all, the night's fun was finished off with some pretty intense LM. H even brought along some toys to play with which added to the fun.

At least now going away for his weekend, he has all that in his mind and he has to wait till Saturday for more.

Dia is better at describing things than I am but you get the picture.

The opening up of communication especially in relation to this aspect of our R has made a huge difference. We never used to discuss any of this but now it is a regular occurrence set by a lot of flirty txts and emails of a day.

Woo Hoo!!

Whoda thunk that H's "Exotic MLC Adventure" was waiting right there at home for him the whole time.

I'm SO glad things are going well for you.

(((((((((((((((((Oz))))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks Dia

I was pretty happy with myself, never would have thought I had it in me.

And to think all he had to do was ask and we could have avoided all the stress of the past 4 months.

Way to go, Oz.

Thanks Cas.

Poor H he is gonna hold that image all weekend and by the time he returns he will be wanting an encore lol! Doesnt this all make us realise that ME time and US time is so important and it needs tending just like H's floral garden.