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Trivia last night...we took 2nd place, lots of fun.

Going to an auto museum today where they have all these classic cars from TV shows & movies. I'm not really a "car guy", but it's something new. Movies tonight and nothing but football tomorrow. GAL'ing.

BTW, just got an an email...that singles dog club went kaput! Organizer quit unexpectedly. Oh, well.

Any big plans for you and your other half?

Congrats on the trivia night! We've never done that well. I reminded BF that we should start doing that again even if we suck. Car museum sounds fun. A friend had his wedding reception in a cool car museum, they have great pics and it was fun for the guests to roam around. Too bad about the singles dog club. Have you checked out Meetup.com for groups in your area?

Last night we went out for pizza, played cribbage (my annual game, BF used to play tournaments for money in college) then I went to a midnight showing of Blue Velvet. Today we had/have tennis lessons, I'm off to the farmers' market to pick up more Honeycrisp apples, then we're either going to work on my closet (nope, it's still not even started!) or go to an Oktoberfest since the weather is gorgeous, I have a baby shower to attend then we're meeting friends at the comedy club for the late show. Tomorrow is football of course, then we're going to a Jitterbug class to see if BF wants to take Lindy Hop classes with me next month.

So just a typical weekend.

You are a busy woman...when do you sleep?

Car museum was fun, they sell classic cars too. If I had an extra $50k....??? Went to dinner and a movie with my sisters and BIL's. Had a great time.

Next week should be interesting when W gets the paperwork and reads the sentence regarding the equity in the house. Is an angry email forthcoming? Too bad, she opened this can of worms...for absolutely no reason!

BTW, I may have asked this before, but how long were you and BF separated when he started showing interest in coming back? Was A over at that point?

Hmm, let's see...BF declared that we were separated early December (the day after my birthday to be exact) but I didn't throw him out of the house until mid-January. It was mid-Feb when I got the "I miss you, still care for you and want to explore if we can work this out" email. And for the record, I was so pissed and disgusted when I got it. No, the affair was not over, he was living with her, which is why I refused to discuss anything personal with him. I wasn't about to let him cheat on her with me!

I was just curious about the time line. I started reading your "current" thread last night, but it was getting late. I'll finish reading it today. Quite a roller coaster ride you went on. I'm not sure I'd be up for it, but then again it doesn't look like I'll have to worry about it anyway.

This next week or so should be interesting depending on how quickly she responds to the paperwork. If this is truly what she wants, I should have it back very soon...no reason for her to hang onto it.

Seahawks vs. Bears...care to make a wager???

Not today. Hasselbeck is out, we don't have that much confidence in Seneca Wallace. Plus I just saw the Seahawks' new uniform and it is ug-ly. I can't be confident in men wearing neon green.

You might appreciate this...I met Kyle Orton's wife at the baby shower last night. She's not working right now either so I invited her out to lunch some time. We'll see if she calls.

My current thread is when the piecing started so after most of the OW and "let's get back together" crap. Just different crap now.

It will be interesting to see how she responds this week. Just try to have no expectations and keep busy.

Houshmanzadeh is a difference maker - he is missed in Cincinnati!

I've got him on one of my fantasy teams so I'm kinda between a rock and a hard place.

Cool meeting Mrs. Orton...didn't even know he was married. I'm playing my D11 in FF this week...bragging rights of the household. We're both 2-0!

No expectations...other than W being PO'd. I actually hope I hear nothing from her one way or another. Contact with her last week...even regarding nothing...was disturbing. I've got to get past that, unfortunately if we proceed on our present course it's unavoidable.

My step FIL is on his way over for the Bears game. He wants to remain friends regardless of my sitch. Hey...aren't you supposed to be watching football????

I am watching football! Have the laptop going with the three tvs...

How do you like all those false starts? The stadium is awesome, everyone yells as loud as they can.

I'm still upset from the Niners game. Argh, I hate Brett Favre! Sigh, at least I can blame the loss on Gore's injury. Without him SF doesn't have a running game.

Hey Jon--thanks for Whosyourmamma...I love him!