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has anyone heard of this working 1500 miles away?

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does any body out there think this can work when she can never see me or never really talks to me?

wife said she wanted to talk to me later. so i called and she didnt answershe text me back and said the kids were eating i could call back later. i called back in an hr she said it was bedtime and told me to call in the morning. i text and asked her what time she said 730 . i said no problem .she text back goodnight. are those baby steps or even normal reaction for a WAW?

Think you may be falling into a trap. If she wants to talk you say fine call me around 8:30 or whenever you want to talk. Won't hurt to have plans so your not so available.

IMHO she is flexing her control muscles.

i think your right cbart. and im going to try that ill let u know how it works

evrything has happened so fast. i feel like even if this does go through it may be the only thing to let her think about what really happened. i pray it doesnt go that far but it sure looks like that is the case.

i know she isnt dateing she said she just wants her own life with the kids. when we were together she was dieing to be able to have adult conversation. how does that change this quickly?

i dont know how anybody would rather be alone. i know she isnt dating bc i have an old friend who works with her. all she does is work and take care of the kids. Could this be another reason why she isnt seeing things clearly yet?