Well....I found out this morning....ppl think they need to tell me what H is doing...I've told them I don't care to know...it hurts too bad....
Since my MIL is best friends with my mom...she "slips"..on purpose sometimes and says things she knows my mom will tell me...looks as though H has been bringing OW around more and more...guess he is easing her into the family...ok...so that hurts...my relationship with my H's family is unusual....we were all just connected somehow...even my H was best friends with my brothers....his sister is one of my best friends...
I wish there was a medication I could take that would erase him from my head like he has erased us....
EVeryone says it will get better....in time....it's not....I am getting a life, I am doing things with my kids....my D17 is hurting sooooo bad....I can't fix it....I have found her a counselor but....it's forever changed her outlook on life...she trusts NO ONE!!!! she's scared to love, she's scared they will run....and I don't know what to say....I put on that front, and smile, tell her I love her, we will be okay...then I have to go to my closet to cry because I just don't know that it will be....
I told my daughter that God only gives the most obstacles to the strongest people so he must think we are fantastic....truth is......my plate is full....my nerves are shot....and I'm about to get screwed with a mediator....I don't have a bunch of money to fight....
Sorry....had to vent.....
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
I knew there was a reason I had to come to the board tonight.
I know it is hard but try to put your H out of your mind. You are doing the right thing for you and your kids and I dont care what anyone says it will come back and bite him in the azz.
I did read your post on your thread and you didn't blow it by any means. You are not letting him run all over you. Let him do all the leg work but still look out for you!!!!
I miss coming here to but I feel like there is nothing new to report so I just come on every once and a while. I do think of you and pray for you all!!!
YR.....please read my thread when you get a minute....
Miss you mom......Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Yes things are doing just great at home. Had my parents here for 2 weeks and had alot of fun. I hate seeing them getting older, but they are still going after all they have been through!
Hi MMF!!!! I have missed all of you. My H has kept me pretty busy though and that is a good thing.
One day when I was on DB looking through the threads my H came into the room and said " Are you still on that site?" He said "We don't have to worry about anything like that ever again!" "We don't need to divorce bust anything!"
I thought back when I was on this site day and night and you all saved me from making so many mistakes. I told my H that I come on this site and read and if I can offer any advice. He said it was okay and that I should. LOL What a difference in my H from a few years ago!!!
