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Peace, He still thinks of himself as the man in the house.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
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Originally Posted By: peacetoday
He asked wheres the Wood?
I said BF took care of it..He said OH and looked stunned and left
he seems like he rerally CANT hear me anyway
like in an ear and right out the other
peace


It may seem like he can't hear you, but it sounds like he got this message loud and clear. You took care of this yourself and he wasn't needed. They want us to stand still, you took care of this on your own and they don't like it when stuff like this happens.




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remember one thing for sure Peace. YOU are sincere with your conversations... be kind. That is what we are suppose to do.. its what God calls us to do. BUT you don't have to put your heart out there.


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again


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Interesting... What do you think caused the sudden change in his behavior?

Did kids meet the new maybe wife? Did he tell them yet?

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HI thanks for visiting
I think the new behavior was a moment of clarity
a moment of soberness
and the fact that I have been getting new business for our very slow business
MY xh has since saturday gone back in his hole
he appears drugged much of the time
I believe he is really MI continue to let go
praying he does notdetroy our business b/c he is so unavailable to our customers ect
oraying for divine intervention
they really destruct everything
peace


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Holy Shxx

XH sounded slurred on phone
I told him I know you are using again
His wife chimed in some BS IN backround
she sounded high too

H new wife just called my cell?? WTF
She said I was wrong to accuse her and H of being high
she said she had a speach problem and she doesnt use

I was shocked__First time I ever spoke with her

I told her I CANT Talk to her now
she asked when would be a good time
I SAID I dont think THere will EVER be a good time
I said I have to go and I hung up
I was polite

What she wants my sympathy about her speech issues..
Fuxx her!
I was cordial which she doesnt deserve
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Ok I can understand if SHE has a speech problem. I don't understand how that would cause your XH to slur??

I'm sorry she called, it sounds like you handled it well. Try not to get pulled into their mess, but at the same time I would be very concerned for your children if he is using. They do not need to be exposed to that.


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OMG, peace, I can't believe she called you.
I totally agree with trapt. For your kids' sake, I hope your xh is not using again. Are you confident that he is? If he is and you suspect that she is too, I'd keep the kids from seeing them.
And seriously - she has a speech problem???

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I know xh is using
I sense he is at bottom
I believe his new wife called me for a reason other than what she said
I guess she has a speech issue..I really cant tell nor so I care
Maybe I sense problems are intensyfying there

I told XH he could not have kids today
he was suppose to take them and introduce his new bride
I dont trust him with them at the moment
D said he sounded drunk
I am done for the moment
XH will have to find his way back to a clean and sober life
he had 20 years in recovery
peace


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wow - peace I will pray for you - and for protection in your life from GOD Himself!


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
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D final 7/30/2008
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