They were for a while when this started two years ago. They've been good up until this weekend. The C told us that we have one of the friendliest d's she's ever seen and that's why our kids seem so well adjusted.
The kids are staying with inlaws while w is out of town, really love my inlaws they're great. When I dropped the kids off they were not good, didn't want to stay with them ect... I got them calmed down and happy before I left so that was good... Kids called a little later and they were good...MIL got on the phone and really thanked me for the help with the kids and told me what a great job I did, that meant a lot to me.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Checking in on your thread. I would expect that your kids (like any kids) would have up and down issues with the D. Its probably becoming a reality to them now as before there may have been some glimmer of hope.
Is there anything at W's that they are seeing or hearing that may upset them? I know you mentioned before that she was dating...is she talking about that with them or are they overhearing her talking with others? Is she dating in front of kids?
People don't realize how hard D is on kids even in the best of situations.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Is there anything at W's that they are seeing or hearing that may upset them? I know you mentioned before that she was dating...is she talking about that with them or are they overhearing her talking with others? Is she dating in front of kids?
I'm not sure, I don't think she has told them anything about dating. I think when she gets back I'll just ask her if she's noticed anything and let her know what happened when I had them. I did tell her I'd like to know before she would introduce the kids to anyone, she agreed with that.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Kids pick up on so much and they do have eagle ears when needed as well. She may have something else on her mind or acting a bit different and they will sense that. My older kids told me that they knew their dad was seeing someone because when they talked on the phone he talked different...like his voice changed or something.
Talk with wife....good luck.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
So damn easy to say that life's so hard Everybody's got their share of battle scars As for me, I'd like to thank my lucky stars that I'm alive and well... It'd be easy to add up all the pain And all the dreams you sat and watched go up in flames Dwell on the wreckage as it smolders in the rain But not me...I'm alive
And today you know that's good enough for me Breathin' in and out's a blessing can't you see Today's the first day of the rest of my life and I'm alive And well...I'm alive and well
The stars are dancin' on the water here tonight It's gonna fall a soul when there's not a soul in sight This boat has caught its wind and brought me back to life now I'm alive and well
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
