I THINK IM'E BLIND!!!! OT, any one tell you ever that you could write one of those steamy love story sex novels? Holy cow just talking like that makes me weak in the knees(G rated) to think about my H doing that. I do still think that Doc needs to go a little slower and Romance first but it definitley needs to lead to something like that. AAAAAAAH that feeling of being desired would be great.
JAK
Last edited by JoJo's circus; 08/21/0905:59 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
OT, that you think your steamy suggestions only rate a PG-13 shows how far off the mark we each are. (I'm at work now and had to stop reading as I found I my pulse go up and realized I had stopped breathing. LOL.)
You chastise Doc for moving too quickly towards his own orgasm, but then you suggest he jump right to third base anyway when he hasn't even gotten to bat yet.
I agree Doc needs to go after his W with that much ardour eventually, and perhaps her gearbox can accept going from first into fourth like that. But perhaps he should start just wee bit slower than that, see how second and third gear handle first.
OT, I have to agree with NC and JO I think this is a little more than PG13. LOL Tell me, do you plan on publishing a sequel?
Doc, I do think you are going to have to get her excited. Stop asking and hoping, start being more aggressive, maybe not as aggressive as OT is talking about, but doing things that get her heart racing.
Like I said the flirty little text messages sure get my heart racing. Sometimes they make me blush, but sure get me to thinking if you know what I mean! Seduce your wife!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
You keep saying in different posts that you have let go of the OM so to speak but, you keep brining up this and other issues so obviously you still need to work on getting past it. It is like you are still punishing W. It really does sound like you think she owes it to you.
JAK
Will post more lately but I have to commit on this.. Jak, it is really strange but I am NOT punishing W. I know it takes Two to tango but I have forgiven her. In my mind it's HIM. Maybe No code can understand but it's a guy thing. I know she is sorry. I know she told me they should not have had sex. And knowing my wife yes she did call him but he was the one that initiated things. Guess in some ways I need to be more like him. This morning I had an appointment with the prosthetic business. I was to observe the Tech as he built and artificial leg. (It was great more later). Anyway as I was leaving wife was fixing her breakfast. I went up behind her and put my arms around her and said I will see you later. I then pulled her hair aside and kissed her neck. I rubbed her sides little and then as I let go I kind of slid my hand down across her hips…….I don’t know about her but I sure did get excited touching her again like that.
OT I need to correct you. It may seem to you the way I write things that the sex is all about me. It never was. I was never happy unless she had an O first. I also think that was part of the problem was I was always trying to please her. Ok I need to go but I promise I have more to say latter. THANK YOU everyone for putting up with wishy washy Doc….
You will be happy to know that the more I am planning my “road trip” the less the OM becomes an issue…. Yoyo.. As for the “text messages” I have put little notes in her panty drawer, left notes on the mirror. She never responds.. Not sure if they piss her off or get her thinking…one of the craziest things and I don’t know why I am telling you this was on her box of “always” under the bathroom sink…. I wrote “I love you “above the always…. Bye 4 now
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Well never mind... I had plans tonight to give wife a back rub. (I am good at it) but she conveniently sat in a position that did not allow. I told her I wanted to give her a back rub and she said "that’s ok" in other words "no"...
OT I have tried allot of what you have said. I have thought I saw progress but could I just be filing in the blanks with positives because that is what I want? No matter what I do could it be possible No matter what, wife is not interested and just hanging around? Should I just come right out and ask wife if we are separated? the other night when son and I were camping and we called her and she said she enjoys her solitude and I said does that mean you don’t want to me married she said “that’s not what I said”….
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Instead "as usual" when W gets upset (for lack of a better word) with me and let it go... She went shopping and I was out front washing the jeep. When she returned I went up to her and asked her if she was still mad at me for "wasting her ink" She did not say anything but did give me a little kiss...
OT, You are expressing your views from your perspective and I appreciate it but I do feel my Wife has a problem with again becoming Intimate with me. I have tried romancing her with flowers, gifts and notes. I have initiated allot of body contact... I HAVE NEVER COME ACROSS TO HER AS IF TO SAY"PUT YOUR HANDS IN MY PANTS AND IT WILL BE OK....”
Tonight when I get back from my volunteer work I am going to try to seduce her into letting me give her a massage…
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
OT, any one tell you ever that you could write one of those steamy love story sex novels?
Thus the material for the PG13 Harlequins...
