Get your kids out of the house if she is being dramatic.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Thanks for the support guys. She is sobbing asking me how I can treat her like nothing and like she is a whore. She says no one wants her ( another reference to the OM dropping her for his wife). Man she is playing the guilt card. Maybe I will take the kids out for some dinner.
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms
i agree with ashlee, she is projecting her emotions about something else, NOT about u decided to sleep in your bed.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
[quote=Coach]She is OK. You can monitor her but ler her cry it out. All you said was you are moving back in your bed. You are stating a boundary, she is having the EA and wants out. She will respect you for this, just hard for you to see. If she starts in on you just calmy state, "Sorry you feel that way. It's my bed and I am going to sleep in it." Nothing further to discuss right now. [/quote]
