Hi B, thanks for stopping by my thread. I think that you really, really need to get out and get yourself a life! Especially if thats what shes doing! Where in Tx are you, is it a big city? I always ran the risk of running into H at one of the 4 bars in town!
I think that the point of DBing is to restore YOU, so that no matter what happens, you learn to cope and be ok no matter what. Sure, we want our spouses to come back, but for me at least, DBing really taught me how to respond in a more healthy way.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
