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Good Morning Y'all...

Gardener Thank You...

Thank you for your kind words and I will focus on your prayer Sunday...

It puzzles me that you find it a big deal (as well as I do) however no one in my family cares to even come except my SIL...

Sad...

I didn't even tell hubby because not sure he would care at this point...

Did get a text from him this morning...

Short and sweet...

Guess today isn't the day that this ends...

Maybe tomorrow

Thank you for the songs as well...

I don't think I have heard these but will add them to the ones I need to download as soon as I get my computer out of storage...

I love the words though...

Music is something I don't think I can live without...

Never have been able to...

I relate so much through music so I couldn't not have it in my life

I hope you have a wonderful day!

Ditto.
You too, sweets.

Lousy day. Just in a funk.

Wife emailed me websites of two mediators for me to peruse and "choose one". Nope.

Also saying she ordered a sofa bed for her apartment so Pregnant D and her S/O have a place to sleep when the visit from midwest next month (I didn't even know they were coming) and a place for D, S/O and baby when they visit for Christmas and do I want back our den sofa that she took/I let her take when she moved/I moved her stuff in December.

I thanked her for the websites.
Told her S & DIL would like the sofa for their new place.
Told her D, S/O and new granddaughter are welcome to stay here in December, of course.

Then I made an appointment with a lawyer for Tuesday.

Sorry buddy.

There are just going to be days like this. How you handle them is up to you.

Hang in there.

*tea and sympathy*

I'll second the "hang in there". You're one of the posters I follow even if I don't comment. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders.

Good morning Gardener!

What the heck is a funk. I've heard of a dance called the Funky Chicken but...

Shock - you ignored your wife's request for you to make the decision! How can you possibly do that?????

Spot on with the replies.

L stuff. Yuck. Looking for advice? Just building up the info? Girding your loins?

Pleasant dreams sleepy head.

Catch u on the morrow.

Mac

Gardener,

What do you have planned for the weekend. Sounds like you could use some YOU time with some things you want to do. Just get out and do anything.

Keep your head up. You will get through this and be much stronger.

Gima,
Working this afternoon. With S, 30. Out tonight. Out all day tomorrow (no idea where/what), yet, after tackling some much-avoided bills, invoices, etc. in the morning.

When are you guys leaving, again?

Mac,
Yes. All three (and then some).

We take off tomorrow morning. Sunday and Monday night at Disney, then Tues night at in-laws (I get along fine with them, even in the current sitch - remember, my FIL asked me to be the executor of his estate a month or so ago, so I think he is pulling for me), then back home on Wed.

I'm taking my laptop with me, as well as my blackberry, so I will have web access to this site and FB- lots of waiting in line.

W is running around getting her hair done, then a massage (she actually asked me yesterday if she could do this and if I would watch kids).

I am going to work out in b/w her two activities, then get a haircut. She was very warm last night. Required some effort on my part to stay cool. But I did. Of course, being tired helped.