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well, she texted me this morning said she was not going to to take the kids to a movie and was not comming here to drop them off. then she texted shortly after and said please let me know wen you are comming so I know what we can do... (well it's always from 5-6) so I took it as she was upset I did not jump at her texts so when I did see the texts I responded and told her I just got the texts at it would be closer to 6
( I figured I was not going to use the word sorry)

she just seems so touchy all the time. she is the one who wanted space. but yeat not a day goes by where she does not look for any reason to text or call. I get a little anoyed at times because Im doing stuff and she seems pissed when I dont jump for her.. for years i did now I dont im not saying i dont like the texts and calls it makes me feel wanted but it's like wow when I do anything like that to her it would be the end all

I just hate the WAW game-playing. It's so lame, isn't it?

Once again, I will say that sometimes I am embarrassed to be a woman......

What, and the cheating MEN are real princes of a catch???

It's not limited by gender.

Puppy

Of course not.

Well, I suppose I could broaden the parameters and be embarrassed to be a human being.

LOL.

Yeah, sometimes it does feel that way, doesn't it.

Oh, wow today is not turning out that great! the good is shadowed by the bad.. bassically in short she told me I can have all the kids I need to pick up my son from his daycare and take him home with me and she started talking sorta scary like she had nothing left. I tried talking to her again but she said she wanted some time to herself and will go over the details later. I have such a headach. I have a friend checking in on her to make sure she is ok

so much was said today im still trying to think strait she blames me for so much yet turns around and says she knows she made the choices that put her where she is, she just wanted to be happy and she messed that up too.

why is it that when she thinks I wont talk to her again she needs to give me the kids and talks like she is walking out of there lives for good?

she said today I dont care about her.. she says I took her babies the only thing she cared about. she says its just because she does not want to be with me...

I know this is alot of phrases but its how my whole morning went and i told her i didnt want to fight i would talk to her later,

i dont know how to take in all of this

If you are worried about her safety, you need to tell someone. And document how shes acting, you might need it later.

Let her enjoy her little pity party, I think that when she says that you dont care about her, she expects you to insist that you do. I would just tell you are sorry she feels that way, and you understand, validate her feelings! And that you hope that you can be strong co-parents for your kids. I wouldnt even acknowledge the I dont want to be with you comment.

thanks for the quick responce.. her mom called and was giving me an ear full. I'm really tired of it already! but until my wife sighns a placment agreement I cant plan out the daycare. so i have to play it day by day..

one of my friends thinks this is just her way of getting me to talk to her. she knows I dont unless it's pretty much the exchange of the kids so at this point it's her way to get me to talk to her. and when she thinks im done and moving on she used my son as a pawn

So you think that she just wants attention from you?